Disability and PE
I’m curious. Are there any disabled or wheelchair bound guys doing PE? Or does anyone know someone else who is disabled and doing PE exercises?
The reason I asked is because I am disable and been interested in PE on and off for about last 10 years now. I have a birth defect called Spina Bifida. Which means I have no use of my legs and have partial feeling and control down there. This condition plus, my genetics (I’m Asian :) ) is a double strike for me with size of my equipment. If I remember correctly, I was just under 5” when I first discovered Jelqing in 2003. Studies shows that average for Spina Bifida are around 4”, so I felt I wasn’t doing too bad.
Despite my so called disability, I enjoy sex as much as everyone else. I have had 4 serious relationships in my life and my partners never complained about my size. I’ve also had a number of one night stands while I was single and again no complains. Perhaps they were just being kind to me. To compensate for my size and lack of pelvis movement, I have learn to use my fingers and tongue pretty well. Advantage of being me is that once I got her off with my tongue and fingers, I just lay back and enjoy the show from the below. ☺
Nonetheless, I was always concern about my size. Jelqing has also been difficult for me because of my disability. I can’t always get the semi erection that you need for the jelq . For me it is fully erect or none at all. And if I’m correct, you are not suppose to jelq when you’re fully erect. But I did what I can all these years; stretches, jelq, pump and stretching device (which didn’t work for me). I even had a few years of Bathmate sessions. And now, I’m 5.5” BPEL and 5” in girth. YAY!! Lots of hard work been paid off.
Well, I was very happy with my gain until I hooked up with a girl in Vienna a few years go. I normally go for the petite and short girls so they won’t complain about my size. This girl was short and petite. At one point in conversation, she mentions the guy she picked up in Mexico as too small for her (Alarm bells started to ring!! O.0 ). That had me worry but since we got along so well we hooked up anyway. She rode me like a rodeo that night. When we’re done I asked if I was too small for her also, she told me she preferred my other skills over my size o.0. She said she was used to having 7” and plus … Ouch!
Well that kind of bruised my ego a bit.
I have had a few more girls since then and again no complains but I never stopped thinking about what the girl from Vienna said. So, I’ve started again with PE and this time I’m motivated to stick to a routine. I’ve also found an herbal meds which I take daily that gives me more control over my erections so I can do my routine easier. Kegel is difficult for me as I have very little muscular control at my pelvis but I try anyway. Not going to be using Bathmate any more because it hurts my balls.
So here’s my routine:
1) Start with a hot shower or bath for about 10 mins as warm up routine.
2) Do stretches from a sofa or bed for 5 mins
3) 10 - 15 mins jelqs from the edge of the sofa. I can’t stand and can’t jelq while lying in bed so I have to do from the edge of the sofa.
4) Attempt Kegel with every 50 strokes. This makes me tired but I can see the head of my member gorging up with each attempt and it feels really good in my hands.
5) 5 more mins jelq squeeze then I let it hang for 20 mins or so.
6) Do this 3 days in a row and rest for 1 day.
I also take my herbal meds daily with every meal and I can feel the effect it has. I’m in my 4th week with this routine. I can feel the girth becoming bigger but no change in length yet. I can also feel the difference in the behavior of my little guy. I wake up in the middle of the night and morning with solid wood which lasts for about an hour. During the day at work throbbing in my pants continues all day. I’m having a hard time working (no pun intended).
I am aiming for 7” BPEL and 5.5 - 6” in girth. The girl form Vienna mailed me the other day. She is coming to South Africa next August, (where I live), for her master degree research. Maybe I can have my revenge then.. Ha ha.. :D
I’m sharing my story because I want to know if there is others out there who are in a similar situation I.e. Disabled like me. Perhaps learn from their experience also.
And I aplogise if the story was too long.