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Destroying The Image Size Anxiety

Destroying The Image Size Anxiety

A lady’s honest thoughts on penis size : sex
Very interesting. Those who would like to know what women think about size should give this a read. Especially those of us who are in the APPARENTLY "average" range.
I’m no all star when it comes to penis size, but this explains a lot thinking about how women have reacted to my size in the past, and I was actually smaller at the time. Slightly I might add.
Guys, don’t be too discouraged if fall within the range of 5-6 inches with girth of at least 4.
The vast majority of women would prefer to have a penis of what we say is average size and although some more size, 7 in. 5-5.5 girth can fill them a little more, this is not the determining factor when it comes to how well you have pleasured her.

There are women with fetishes just like men. But if you’ve had bad experiences where you have been abused for the size or appearance of your penis, Do as much research as you can, especially here on Thunders, and realize that you are just a guy like the rest of us, with a penis that WILL satisfy a woman sexually, no matter what you’ve heard, or seen, or felt.

That can be hard to believe.
But take it from me. Someone who has always believed they have a small penis, has tried just about everything within the past 2 years to increase the size of it, endless hours of research from the time I was in my teens *laughs*, and I’m just beginning to understand that this big penis thing is really just for our egos.

Sometimes a woman can really hurt a man’s ego. Sometimes as humans we say things that are irrational or hurtful. We’ve done it to women too.
But there are those in this world who feed off of the division and pain that is caused by hurtful ideas like these. That the one most programmed need we must fulfill cannot be enjoyed. Having sex. Simply because your penis cannot pleasure a woman?
I saw someone on this thread say something very profound.
Sorry for not remembering your name. But they said We were made as men to fulfill woman’s sexual desires with our penises. This is how our creator formed us, and regardless of size we can fulfill our partners needs.
If your woman is telling you she needs something bigger, then there is most definitely something else you both can try in order to fulfill her.
FulFILL her. *laughs*. A penis of 4 inches in length by 4 inches in circumference is much larger than your finger or even both of them, and a finger can give great pleasure. NO reason to believe your dick can’t.
In fact, when a woman can sense you believe this about yourself, it causes a strain in the relationship sexually and neither of you are as fulfilled.

Women are made as compliments to us. They naturally seek our gratification. Just like we do from friends or family. But the man and women can share something sexually and it is powerful. So MAKE THE BEST USE OF THIS GIFT. Regardless of whether or not you believe in God or are on the other end of the spectrum completely, women can be pleased greatly by men with penises.

As with your PE, continue to research, read, write, analyze and keep digging until you feel you have found some truth and then once you know it don’t stop. Continue to improve.
Be a Man. Women will love you and your dick for it. Guarantee it.

That being said. If you are very small, very large, or average. You can please a woman with the penis you have. So WHY NOT MAKE IT BIGGER? *laughs*
Continue to support Thunders place and explore it. You’ll find interesting information, and realize there are people who are just like you. Our struggles are not so unique as humans. You’re not alone!

I learned something very encouraging from a member here who is very active and has much experience. Thoughtfulgold
He explained to me that the size I’m at right now is actually slightly larger than what most women prefer when they pick a toy. Never knew it!
After further research I found this is spot on. I’ll keep searching!


April of 2016 BPEL 5,5/8 MSEG 4,3/8

Now BPEL 6,3/8 MSEG 4,5/8

Please excuse me as some of the comments I made were not edited properly by me. Once again I apologize. I am new to posting on Thunders.
Thank You for reading!

I’d like to know what you guys think. If it is done respectfully of course my brothers.


April of 2016 BPEL 5,5/8 MSEG 4,3/8

Now BPEL 6,3/8 MSEG 4,5/8

You echo a lot of the sentiments I’ve spoken on many times. I won’t be able to say it enough, neither can you. Because…people have to believe it for themselves. Men have to be okay with themselves. Some aren’t okay with themselves. Some will not be okay with themselves when they’re bigger. Some are okay with themselves now.

The rarest bird of all is the one who is okay with himself sheerly for a larger penis. Typically, teh course of gaining a larger penis helps one realize you have to love yourself for more than said appendage but…a small portion of men actually feel better with just a bigger penis. And this idea…that’s what drives our membership base the most.

But…a bit of inner peace and realizing that women aren’t the validators of ourselves or our penises…well…that can’t be taught or learned after mastering a routine.

Thanks for the post and honorable mention.


Now: 9" BPEL x 6.25" MSEG as of 11/10/2019 This is my story, a few progress pics of me here, and all my methods.

Then: 6.25" x 4.37" in 8/2009 Are you new to PE? Here's some advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

My Extender and forward to 10" and balls enhancement project. There is no "Holy Grail" of Penis Enlargement. Only time and effort works. I'm *10* years in and counting. All you have to do is put the work in and keep the faith.

Originally Posted by thoughtfulgold
You echo a lot of the sentiments I’ve spoken on many times. I won’t be able to say it enough, neither can you. Because.. People have to believe it for themselves. Men have to be okay with themselves. Some aren’t okay with themselves. Some will not be okay with themselves when they’re bigger. Some are okay with themselves now.

The rarest bird of all is the one who is okay with himself sheerly for a larger penis. Typically, teh course of gaining a larger penis helps one realize you have to love yourself for more than said appendage but.. A small portion of men actually feel better with just a bigger penis. And this idea.that’s what drives our membership base the most.

But.. A bit of inner peace and realizing that women aren’t the validators of ourselves or our penises.well.that can’t be taught or learned after mastering a routine.

Thanks for the post and honorable mention.


Likewise,
Not trying have a negative impact on the membership base!
But Understanding these things could prevent a lot of injuries and lead to more gains for those who are new. I know I injured myself a few times, not severely, but enough to where I realize now there was no reason for me to abuse my dick like that lol.
The gains I have seen are almost unnoticeable to me over the span of time I have been practicing PE. Is this something you notice from year to year? That the change is not so significant unless you’ve practiced for a long period of time, years.
Almost like body building.
Maybe this is a no brainer but I’m just realizing that I actually have made gains.


April of 2016 BPEL 5,5/8 MSEG 4,3/8

Now BPEL 6,3/8 MSEG 4,5/8

Originally Posted by Bambeeno
Likewise,
Not trying have a negative impact on the membership base!
But Understanding these things could prevent a lot of injuries and lead to more gains for those who are new. I know I injured myself a few times, not severely, but enough to where I realize now there was no reason for me to abuse my dick like that lol.
The gains I have seen are almost unnoticeable to me over the span of time I have been practicing PE. Is this something you notice from year to year? That the change is not so significant unless you’ve practiced for a long period of time, years.
Almost like body building.
Maybe this is a no brainer but I’m just realizing that I actually have made gains.

It is not a no-brainer. I spent years thinking I’d gotten nowhere. It’s so gradual that body dysmorphia will trigger, day in and day out and you just won’t see it. You won’t be able to. I hazard the word “can’t” but it fits in many cases.

You are having a positive impact on the membership base. The more people who aren’t me say this kind of thing, the more folks will see it ain’t just a thing I believe. That it’s true for many, no…all of us here.


Now: 9" BPEL x 6.25" MSEG as of 11/10/2019 This is my story, a few progress pics of me here, and all my methods.

Then: 6.25" x 4.37" in 8/2009 Are you new to PE? Here's some advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

My Extender and forward to 10" and balls enhancement project. There is no "Holy Grail" of Penis Enlargement. Only time and effort works. I'm *10* years in and counting. All you have to do is put the work in and keep the faith.

Thanks for posting this Bambino. I didn’t read all the Reddit comments but I read what she wrote and I appreciate it, although it’s what I’ve always felt to be true.

I feel personally I will always deal with this issue thanks in large (no pun intended) to society’s image on not just men but women too. We’re told at a young age in one way or another that body image is important. If you watch TV or just read the news paper body image is a constant. Even though I’ve never been told I have a small penis or a bad body or an unattractive face, I’ll always find things that bother me about me.

I’ve done hypnosis for substance abuse and everyday life issues, recently I added in penis image to my nighttime affirmation. I listen to a hypnotic recording and I tell myself how great my penis is. Because the bottom line is it’s all in my head. I’m close to my goal at this point but I want to keep going only because my brain says too much of a good thing is almost enough.

If do heavy girth session and I last longer then say 5 mins my wife (5 vaginal births,1 c-section) gets very sore. My current measurements are 6.5 nbpel, girth varies from 5 on a bad day to 6 with a c-ring. Well above average. Well last night my EQ was good but for some reason my penis wasn’t near those measurements, a lot of things factor into that, food, exercise, etc. Now because of last night I’m back in my head that I’m not big enough. So what did I do? Well I’ve been on a break, today I pumped because of last night. I was resetting things and my plan was to start back with manuals only for a month. So this was what I needed to read today. Thanks again for posting.

Originally Posted by thoughtfulgold
It’s so gradual that body dysmorphia will trigger, day in and day out and you just won’t see it.


The only time I notice something is when I get positive PI’s
Right after a session or the day after it will look and feel heavier and more girth. Exactly like after you go lift some weights at the gym and get a nice pump haha.
The penis however, is a relatively small and fragile body part. I’ve rested it a little and done a more light routine and it’s responding much better afterward. Not to mention diet, and protein consumption which I also believe play a role.

This really makes me feel good knowing I’m doing something that my body responded well to. And I’ve switched my routine on a daily basis from time to time but it’s never been too extreme.
I really think not being anxious about having a big dick is one of the first keys to making the progress that we want so bad.
The challenge is not getting to excited when you see positive results and think you can grow a ten inch dick on the spot.


April of 2016 BPEL 5,5/8 MSEG 4,3/8

Now BPEL 6,3/8 MSEG 4,5/8

Originally Posted by kingscounty
Thanks for posting this Bambino. I didn’t read all the Reddit comments but I read what she wrote and I appreciate it, although it’s what I’ve always felt to be true.

I feel personally I will always deal with this issue thanks in large (no pun intended) to society’s image on not just men but women too. We’re told at a young age in one way or another that body image is important. If you watch TV or just read the news paper body image is a constant. Even though I’ve never been told I have a small penis or a bad body or an unattractive face, I’ll always find things that bother me about me.

I’ve done hypnosis for substance abuse and everyday life issues, recently I added in penis image to my nighttime affirmation. I listen to a hypnotic recording and I tell myself how great my penis is. Because the bottom line is it’s all in my head. I’m close to my goal at this point but I want to keep going only because my brain says too much of a good thing is almost enough.

If do heavy girth session and I last longer then say 5 mins my wife (5 vaginal births,1 c-section) gets very sore. My current measurements are 6.5 NBPEL, girth varies from 5 on a bad day to 6 with a c-ring. Well above average. Well last night my EQ was good but for some reason my penis wasn’t near those measurements, a lot of things factor into that, food, exercise, etc. Now because of last night I’m back in my head that I’m not big enough. So what did I do? Well I’ve been on a break, today I pumped because of last night. I was resetting things and my plan was to start back with manuals only for a month. So this was what I needed to read today. Thanks again for posting.


I’m right there with ya man. It’s improving but there’s still a little voice in my head saying I need it to be bigger. And it is a societal problem. I believe it comes from the homosexuals who are responsible for most of what we see in regards to fashion, self-image, everything that’s on television and the internet. And I’m not “intolerant” or whatever word they wanna use, in regards to homosexuals. Whatever. But the constant imagery and the rhetoric of having overly enlarged body parts comes from an uncontrolled sexual desire and not from a healthy and wholesome source. Women are probably more victims of this, as we see in pornography and many people of fame, they have overly exaggerated body parts.

In reality this is unnatural and in most cases the persons have undergone some type of cosmetic procedure. Guys have gone and had surgeries, cutting their dicks open in order to enlarge it which usually results in impotence or castration in some cases, all for the sake of a large penis. This funds and fuels a desire that comes from a sick and demented place. There is not really anything wrong with our penises lol. It sucks man but we’ve all been conditioned, or a better word might even be brainwashed to believe if we don’t have a tench in penis then we can’t be happy. It’s too extreme. We’re made out to feel we should be a pushover and be dominated by women with our little penises, or we should take the opposite view and abuse them with a gigantic penis and be harsh with them. Women want men to be tender with them. Whether it’s a big or small penis doesn’t even matter.

I agree with you about the diet and exercise playing a role. Heart health in general probably has a huge effect on how well our penises function.
I’m starting to see how avoiding extreme behaviors and views when it comes to PE, and being more practical, may be a key to unlocking the door to success.

Continue with healthy forms of meditation, that has always helped me get through tough times so thanks for reminding me. However I would be careful when it involves saying the same phrases over and over again. Keeping the mind quiet is good, but focus on a theme and use conscious thought and breathing in order to achieve peace of mind. Ask for it.
Thanks again


April of 2016 BPEL 5,5/8 MSEG 4,3/8

Now BPEL 6,3/8 MSEG 4,5/8

I think you should have a little anxiety, makes you work harder.

I’ll leave the anxiety free life to other people who don’t want it as much.

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