Depressed

its quite depressing to be one of the few with such a below averaga SIZE(4inL…if even that :[ )..in addition i gained a curve on my penis at some point in my life(curves to the left)..which is more depressing then the size itself.(i know the curve is fixable but im not sure how it is done effectively)..i recently found this forum n im hoping u guys can help me out cuz u all seem to know what your doing….i am just now getting into an actual relationship n shes quite sexually active n ive turned down stuff she wanted to do to me (that i really wanted ) because im so ashamed…..now..i know she really likes me n doubt she would leave me over this… but its really embarrasing either way…..please throw me some suggestions on how i can increase my size n fix this right!!!

What’s crackin’ man, start with the newbie routine:

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Man, my heart really goes out to you.

Although I am bigger than you I have been rejected because of dick size. I know although there is a very friendly and caring atmosphere at T’s place it is also a little intimidating because a lot of the guys doing PE have pretty damn big ones in the first place.

I completely understand why declined her advances because of your fear.

My feeling is that you should be honest with her when she advances again and tell her why you are shy. You never know she may reasure you and then you’ll feel a lot better.

Even if your dick size does turn out to be an issue for her, I think it’s better than suffering in silence.

Chin up,
Zig

Ok dude. First off you need to find out your exact size and get the bone pressed length. From the way your talking it sounds like you are measuring non bone pressed. To do bone pressed you put the ruler on top of your dick and jam the end against your abdomen as hard as you can without hurting yourself. That will give you your true length.

BTW if it helps, your not the only one hear with a small dick. I’m only about a half inch bigger than you. I’m 4.625 non bone pressed but I never say that to anybody outside of Thunders. If somebody asks about my size I give them my BP measurement and say a little over 5. Yes we are below average but we both came here to change that.

And be very grateful that you even have a girl. I suggest that you don’t turn down anything that she wants to do but do not bring up your size. If it does get brought up just be honest with her and tell her its one of your insecurities and you don’t want to talk about it. If she really likes you, she won’t leave you because of your size.

datguy,

Hi and welcome to the forum. Could you depress your caps key now and again in your posts? Thanks. Here’s some guidance

Hi Datguy,

Do a search for posts with “curve” in the title, that should help you out. Genreally I think the best options are hanging (will gain you length and has been known to straighten out curves) and jelqing against the curve.

Generally you should start with the newbie routine, for a few months and if you are happy to do so, start hanging.

Welcome to the board.

Melv

Welcome datguy‚

Read the forum guidelines ASAP.

PE really works if you put forth the effort. You need to be dedicated. Read‚ read‚ read. In a little over a year‚ I have gone from 5 7/8 to 7 1/8 and from 4 7/8 to 5 3/8 mid shaft and that’s with taking a few months off.

Don’t be depressed‚ be happy you found this place.