Depressed and Desperate.

Dark haired, no beards. Some natural growth to go, probably. I am dark haired and had some growth for 2-3 years after having full beard.

Hey Cosmology,

I’m also a late bloomer like you. But I can tell you that late bloomers do in fact bloom. When I was your age I was at about 5.5” long or less (BPEL) I don’t know what my girth was, but I’m guessing it was somewhere between 4.5” to 4.8”.

I had no idea what the average dick size was, but I did suspect that I may be small. All I knew for sure is that I had a girlfriend that craved my dick. I used to tell her all the time what I was going to do to her with it - on the phone, text message, letters, every chance I got. We were young and horny. She would love to play with it every chance she got. I could make her cum anyway I wanted, even just by dry humping her. She thought my dick was awesome, because she thought I was awesome.

I hope you see what I’m getting at. I’m talking about the psychology of sexual pleasure. There is so much more that goes into pleasing a woman sexually than just your dick size. And this is the best thing you can know from now.

By the time I hit 21, it had grown to about 6” all on it’s own without my intervention. I didn’t know much about PE at that time, except that PE couldn’t really work (how wrong I was).

Some of the advice given in this thread is really good. They are right about confidence being more important than anything else. So, work at PE, but don’t forget to work on your confidence also. You will find some guys on this forum with 7, 8, or 9 inch dicks who still feel insecure. So quash you’re insecurities from now, getting a bigger unit won’t make it go away. You will have it as long as you measure your worth by your dick size.

Now on to practical matters:

You’ve come to the right place to grow your member. But when you say you are “depressed and desperate” it worries me, because I’m afraid you might overdo it. Take the advice given in this thread and start the linear routine and work your way up over a few months to the newbie routine. You’ll find these in the PE manual.

Remember PE is a marathon, not a sprint. And more often than not, bad things happen to those who try to turn it into a sprint.

Now, as pointed out previously, you didn’t say if those 5” is BPEL or NBPEL. If you don’t know what those mean, then you need to do some reading in the PE manual. Do the reading, learn the lingo, and interact with the members and you’ll get plenty of help, support, and motivation from the Thunder’s community.

PS: Don’t even get me started on the facial hair. I still can’t grow a proper beard. I can grow a pretty good moustache now though, finally. Anyway, the ladies will love your youthful face. It’s all a matter of your own perspective.

You shouldn’t stop growing naturally until your 20s.

Dunno if anyone said this but your dick can grow up till 21 and if you do PE in this time till then I’m sure you’ll easily reach your goals!

Going from 5”s in length to 5.5”s would likely happen to you on its own. It really sounds as thought you had a delayed puberty or simply age veeery slowly. Either way, it sounds like you might not have reached full adult growth yet. I know that it causes angst now; just wait until you are 40 but look 28.

Long term 6”-6.5”s in length is a very realistic goal. As long as you have a safety first mind set and no predetermined time table for gains. Girth is way trickier to predict, and (for most) way trickier to gain. If your wee-wee stopped growing tomorrow I would still fell confident predicting you would have >6.5X5 if you put in the work.

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I think you are ok. Try doing the first time with light off. Less pressure. I have seen tall big guys with small penises and you are not one of them.

The previous posters are right on. Always remember that a woman’s largest sexual organ is her brain. If you do all the other things right, the size of your dick won’t matter. Take it slow and easy with PE. It’s slow, but will be a big payoff if done correctly. I’m not there yet, but I’m gaining and I’m a believer! Lol

Umm, what?

Also, thanks for all the advice guys, I have read everyone’s replies and it’s very encouraging. I just really hope I have some natural growth left seeing as I can’t grow any facial hair at all and my voice is still pretty high for an 18 year old. Also, since I hear most people could cum starting around age 12 and I couldn’t until I was 16 1/2 I think I could maybe have some growth left, at least I hope so.

Start the newbie routine bro.You definitely have more natural growth to come combine it with PE and determination and you will get a monster cock in a few years.

Conjunction,
I agree 100% with your post.
What happened with the Caps Lock on your computer? You should get that fixed. :)

Alright, so I put it off for a while but tonight I’m starting the newbie routine, any advice for someone with not much privacy who lives in an apartment? Should I do it in the shower?

Also, where can I find a good demonstration of Hot wrapping and Kegels?

Dude, take it from a hairy Italian guy; don’t worry about your lack of facial hair! This isn’t the 80’s. Chicks aren’t into hairy guys so much. How many hairy male models do you see? As a 40 year old I now have a daily battle with hair! From reading this forum you can also get a pretty darned good picture about how insecure we all are as humans. I bet every teenage guy has worried about their development. I remember going through a stage where my nips puffed out (I actually had myself convinced that was from smoking weed). Guess what? It went away and when I went to med school I learned that it is normal for guys to go through that. Just be happy you live in the internet age so you can figure this stuff out. When I was 18 there was no way to ask questions without an embarrassing trip to the doctor and there certainly wasn’t an easy way to find out about stuff like penis enlargement! Can you imagine: “dad, is there a way I can fix this crummy little Dick I inherited from you”!

Don’t get fixated on that encounter with the girl. I guarantee she had a lot more on her mind than the size of your dink. When you get married you will realize that to you have to do a lot of work to erase all the messed up ideas about sex her mamma thought her. Mammas do that to keep their daughters from getting knocked up.

Late bloomers usually do very well in life. Early bloomers get used to having it easy and tend to get lazy and stagnate. I remember a girl named Amy from the third grade. She was the first girl to get blobs an we stared, looked, poked, teased, etc. When we graduated from big school she was still 4’ 6” and had some of the tiniest books in the class.

Good luck and don’t forget you that all this is normal!

Wow, the spell checker messed with my above post. I’ll have to pay attention to that.