Control Of Dick

I not 100% sure that I’m not imagining this. Before PE I remember being able to move my dick while flaccid . Like I had a straight connection to my glans and could fill them up by kegelling or whatever. Now I can only feel the kegel around the base and can only fill my glans( on command) while 100% erect.

It’s like I have no feeling/control in the shaft.

Is this a habit from kegelling , have I damaged something. I was unable to penetrate a girl I brought home recently as my glans wouldn’t get hard enough. I take into account I was drunk, not that attracted to her and it was line 5 in the morning but surely something’s wrong

I can get my glans hard if I try to. But normally they are soft

Any advice?