confidence is gone

I was wondering if any one has gone through a complete loss of confidence like I have? I’ve always been good at getting females but now I feel like I can’t. If I see a fine girl I let her pass even when a girl starts flirting with me I barley talk back. This pass Saturday I had a girl grind on me and give me her number and can’t bring myself to call her.

I have 2 girls I bone on a regular basis and they orgasm and 1 squirts, but even that still doesn’t make me confident. I’ve a few really dumb girls that I got at really drunk. I had one and the other 2 I kicked it and made out with. One was an air head, one was about free drinks and expensive dinners which I never gave her and she got this other guy who is lame buys her every thing and she still flirts and tries to mack on me(she my friends girl friends best friend)and the other was weird 22 but into Disney really only listens to radio Disney scared of her own shadow idk just weird.

Felt this way for a few months now just can’t shake it. Any one have a similar story, gone from have fun getting girls to having no confidence at all. Any advice will appreciated.

Happens to us all. Work out some, Find a new war anthem/motivational song and go kick butt.

Renew your confidence by saying there is no one else with your unique qualities and traits-use that knowledge as power!

Maybe you mind is telling you to look for something different, like a deeper relationship maybe?

Just have to force yourself to do it bud, nothing in life is easy. Talk to anybody you have a chance to and this will help you get over your shyness. At work, on the street, in a store, talk to people. And do productive things so you actually have something to talk about. Read the news, watch shows and sports, etc. and you you’ll have things to talk about.

Maybe you’re gay and you just don’t realise it?

The week end is coming up and I probably do just gotta push myself to do it, get back into the swing of things. Always felt confident and never cared about getting turned down, I always use to say if u get turned down u going home alone if u don’t try your definitely going home alone. Wordsthoughts I’m gonna find a new song to pump me up, and tossed salad I still feel no attraction toward men. Think I’m just in a slump never been in one or at least this low of a slump. Feels crazy and had no place to talk about it, but with all the players around here i figured they can shed some light on my sitch.

So you have several girls that you regularly have sex with and you say you have no confidence? What do you want, a freaking harem?

Try not being able to get any girls at all and going years without sex. That’s how you end up not getting any confidence at all.

The only things that come to mind are:

boredom,

low T,

maybe something major has just gone down in your life,

casual sex is not fulfilling you, you want…LOVE? (gasp, I said the L word).

Did somebody say love? Run!!!!

You need to accomplish something other then nailing chicks.. do something meaningful. workout, learn to play guitar, get a hobby you really like. Start doing things for yourself instead of ‘to get chicks’… and the girls will notice. the real meaningful ones…. with similar interests. the ‘keepers’.

nailing air headed or borderline retard girls who are hot can be fun once in a while. If you feel the women where easy targets… then you didnt really earn anything did you… taking candy from a baby is fun. but after a while you see that its not really a good deal.

but I think you need to find a real woman, like sleepy says, maybe you are on the market for something more.

oh I almost forgot. You dont do chem drugs do you? they will ruin your s**t. throw your brain all out of whack.

You may even end up permanently chemically imbalanced. IE Mannic depressive or Bi-Polar. I’ve got a lot of friends who where totally into that kind of stuff. not good. (Im not saying you seem like the type. it just dawned on me to menchion it)

I got 2 girls I have sex with, but their just sex not even friends with benefits. Looking for a relationship idk, on that really Torin it would be cool but not with a dumb girl. I don’t do drugs, I do drink once a week or two. I’m addicted to working out and sex. Have no confidence but I have sex four to five times a week and work out every day, work a part time job and about to start my school semester.

When it comes to new girls i talk myself out of doing any thing, really confidence just vanished first time I’ve been like this its crazy just got make myself do it I guess.

Perhaps you are entering a new chapter of your life. Look at it as something interesting and exciting.

You need to find women with high self esteem much more of a challenge .

air heads are fun for a while. With out a challenge one night stands become boring.

Go after the higher society ladies much more challenging and rewarding.

Well I called that girl but she didn’t answer oh well. I was really nervous but did itkinda glade she didn’t answer haha. Went out on Saturday and made out with this chick I met before been texting back and forth since. I think u guys mouth be right tired of the so called game. See how she is after she shows her true colors.