Condom Question

This may be the wrong place for this, but I have not gained access to the other forums so this seems like a good place to ask.

My girlfriend and I had sex and we are very careful. I use a condom, she has been on birth control for several months, and I pull out. The first time I almost died because the condom was so tight.. It was a regular lifestyles condom. The next time I tried the “LifeStyles Mega” condom. It felt pretty right, snug but not like a tourniquet on my dick. Anyways, I pulled out and came into the condom and I noticed not all went into the tip at the end and looked like it was coming down the sides.. But not outside of the condom. Does this mean the condom is too big? This was after a few minutes of a HJ after she was satisfied.. I know condoms are not made for HJ’s so maybe this had something to do with it.

Anyway, I am just wondering. I am not worried about her being pregnant as she is on the pill and I pulled out and used a condom.. Just looking for input.

Why the need for a condom if she is already on the pill? Other reasons for the need for one?

If none for health reasons other than getting pregnant, I wouldn’t worry about using one. I don’t.

3 for me as-well

After you came, did you lose any of your erection level very quickly? That may explain the movement down the sides. I have also noticed that sometimes it starts sliding down the condom, but have never worried about it as it never escaped and the condom hadn’t moved at the base. So no worries there.

I also had a couple break as they were too tight. With an ex- long before I joined Thunders… I didn’t even know condoms came in more than 1 size then! They were tight enough to kill erections (Durex are lousy for the girthier guy), so stick to the more comfortable ones. You’ll be fine. Unless PE means you need a bigger brand;)

Yeah, the Lifestyles MEGA are good for me right now. However, I read online that they have a 7.5 length, but it doesn’t seem like it. They dont go all the way to the base on me. They are snug on me but don’t feel like they are cutting off circulation or anything. If I gain a little more girth I may consider Magnums.

Just leave a little more space at the end when you put it on if there is not enough room for all the semen. Sometimes it is just pressure that forces it down the sides a bit.

Stop using condoms unless you have an open relationship. Birth Control + Pulling out has equaled 0 pregnancies in 8 years for me. If you are going to use one, try a magnum they are much more comfortable for girth’s over 5.5 inches.

I agree that we should be safe without one, and we are not in a open relationship - we have been dating for almost 2.5 years now. We have a friend who got his girlfriend pregnant even though he used a condom and she was on BC. I tend to doubt them, she probably missed a pill, but she is just more comfortable with one. She is switching BC this coming week anyway so we have to use one regardless.