Change Our Mental Penis Image

There is the issue of actually wanting to get a larger cock…then there seems to be the body dis-morphia that some men struggle with. I for one, have a mental image of myself with smallish penis. So much so that is shocks me when I look down and see how big it actually is, or when I notice how thick it is in my hand. Or in my photos, I cant believe that its my penis sometimes…

Maybe its years of conditioning from pornography (those dudes with relatively big sticks, low body fat, and camera tricks).

Has anyone experienced a change in the “mental penis image”
Any tricks on how to do so?

I think that most of us here can relate well to what you’ve said. It’s one thing to know academically that you’re statistically large, or in the top 20th percentile, or whatever, but it’s another thing entirely to internalize it. For me, it takes constant practice and reminding. That being said, now that my penis is statistically “large”, somehow it doesn’t seem as important as it did a few years ago. I’ve realized that I’m not really defined by the size of my cock. At least not where it really matters.

It took measuring myself for the first time (~way~ back a year ago, around this time) then comparing myself to the data here for me to realize that ‘huh, I’m actually bigger than I think I am’. It just looks small against my big body (especially these extra large thighs lol). I shape up my body and I’ll be alright. And here’s a little trick I use for when I feel small: Do a few minutes worth of squeezes, getting a good expansion going. Then immediately work to a full erection. At least for me, it should be slightly bigger/thicker than a normal erection. Take the time to admire it, note to yourself that its bigger than you think it is. And if you want, you can make it bigger! This helps me when I’m feeling down about penis image.

I have this belief that as I lose weight (I’m losing weight like a swiss watch right now) and as my cock increases in size, an eclipse of proportions and and perception will occur that will get me the ‘HE HAS A HUGE COCK’ status. I think I may even be able to fool myself…