Can't stay erect while jelqing
I can’t seem to stay erect while jelqing—I go from 0% to 100%, and it’s hard to stay in between.
I’m not using porn—and I think I would like to keep it that way. I read kegeling helps, and I tried that a bit, with limited success.
I just wonder if anyone can give advice on how to stay 50-60%, or whatever the ideal range for jelqing is. I really don’t want the baseball bat effect, but I hate it when I have to keep stopping with the jelqs because I go limp.