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Can't orgasm from oral

I’m 25 now and have been having sex since I was 15 and I have yet to orgasm from a bj. It’s frustrating to say the least. Will PE help with this?

I am just going to guess to have some kind of mental block about releasing anything from your penis into someones mouth.


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Mental block, or maybe you grip your dick too hard and masturbate dry. So your dick is used to hard grip, not subtle pleasures of your girls mouth.

Lube every time you jack and dont grip your dick so hard if that is the case.

I’ve never come from bj in my life either. I think it’s mostly psychological because I used to not come during sex as much as I wanted either, but then I became more relaxed and changed everything. Next up is the bj frontier.

Have you tried the 69 position. That’s the only way I could ever cum from a BJ.

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Mental block, or maybe you grip your dick too hard and masturbate dry. So your dick is used to hard grip, not subtle pleasures of your girls mouth.

Lube every time you jack and don’t grip your dick so hard if that is the case.

Lol lol lol wow that must be it.. Noooooooooooo!! Can this be corrected lol?

Originally Posted by sentii
I’ve never come from bj in my life either. I think it’s mostly psychological because I used to not come during sex as much as I wanted either, but then I became more relaxed and changed everything. Next up is the bj frontier.

I’m 100% with you brother

I think it’s all about your sensitivity. I don’t recollect ever cumming from oral. Feels good, but not good enough to make me cum.


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I have similar problem & believe there are some psychological issues getting in the way. For example, I guess I feel selfish if I cum in her mouth. Plus, if she really wants it, she’d better be good at giving a blow job. I haven’t had many that are good at giving head.

On a separate note, I can last a long time, & in one respect, I’m glad I don’t cum to easily.

It could certainly be psychological, but it could also be that the girl is just not that good at it. A lot of it is knowing somehow if they want you to cum from it, or if it’s merely foreplay. Once it’s clear that you are to finish that way, it makes it easier to get it done, regardless of skill. Just have to relax and let go.

I will say though, some girls are just really really spectacular at it, and others….well….not so much. So don’t be too hard on yourself, focus on enjoying it, whether you cum or not.

Originally Posted by Grocery Store
Have you tried the 69 position. That’s the only way I could ever cum from a BJ.

Yeah I’ve tried and I love 69.I think it’s because I have been rough housing when I would masturbate since I was about 14.or it could be mental. I been watching porn since I could remember and I would see mandingo, lex steeleand other hung guys getting oral and would see the guys filling up the girls mouth beyond belief and wishing I could do that.. I might just have to try and reboot my thinking

Stop wackin’. Keep it to at most once every couple days, and tell her to start playing with the balls, and tell her to talk really dirty when blowing you, and tell her to keep eye contact thoughout. Works every time

It could be some combination of psychological, too much masturbation and/or bad BJs but I know in my case that I’m just not very sensitive to BJs. One girl was able to get me to cum twice in one hour with no hands but no other girl has been able to come close to doing it. If you’re like me, you’ll need to find a skilled and understanding partner who is willing to spend ~30 minutes of good steady BJ-ing. It will also help a lot if you haven’t masturbated for a while and you’re relaxed and able to just enjoy it. As per the saying “a watched pot never boils,” you could say that “a guy who obsesses about cumming from a BJ, never cums from a BJ.”


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I used to have the same the problem. Don’t jerk off so hard or jerk off less. tell her to get hands involved and to really stroke it or stroke it some yourself with her mouth nearby and when you are getting close let her have at it.


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Originally Posted by coolguy24
Yeah I’ve tried and I love 69.I think it’s because I have been rough housing when I would masturbate since I was about 14.or it could be mental. I been watching porn since I could remember and I would see mandingo, lex steeleand other hung guys getting oral and would see the guys filling up the girls mouth beyond belief and wishing I could do that.. I might just have to try and reboot my thinking

Coolguy

I think, all the above quoted gentlemen must have a similar problem because I see them rarely finish by oral stimulation exclusively but always have to use their hand for the last seconds :-)

I am not so naive not to know they have to do it as “visual proof” in order to make their salary. But I am convinced there are some porn actors with enough years of duty who may have a similar trouble.

And yes, it is possible to change your dicks sensitivity: less porn (down to zero - it’s good for your brain anyway), less ejaculation-focused masturbation and more edging.
Personally I feel my Kegel exercises give me ways stronger orgasms, with or without Madame involved.
And use less force with your hands! And if you masturbate, take your time - your giving your body the greatest pleasure, so why hurry?

And if you masturbate, try intra-session changes: the longer you work on your dick, the less force you use. Because most men tend to give their dick a solid rubbing/squeezing when it comes to orgasm.
Try instead to bring you close to the point of no return, and the, as if you were edging, slow down, really down, down to very light touching/squeezing (whatever you like to do).
Then keep this light touch over the point of no return and during the orgasm, and focus on the light feeling and visualize during orgasm it is the mouth of your actual preference.

Let me know if this is working, because I just describe what I would do if I was you. No warranty given…


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