CAN stretching or hanging help me
HI everyone, I am new to this site and pretty much all things to do with PE.
I would like to get some advice and do some more research before I embark on any kind of program.
Two years ago I had surgery to repair the suspensory ligament of my penis.
Before surgery my penis (when flaccid) was extremely lob sided and would hang to the left which made me feel very insecure, uncomfortable and anxious.
This injury didn’t happen during intercourse but instead was a result of masturbation.
The surgery has corrected the problem I had. However, it was achieved by ‘tying’ back the suspensory ligament and as a result has caused me more problems that I didn’t experience before surgery.
1. My main concern is that I get erections too fast. I feel I’ve got little or no control over my erections and how sudden they are. (Some members might think this is a good thing and I realize that NOT being able to get an erection is more of a common problem, but I absolutely hate it)
It may be flirting, hugging or even just eye contact that brings the erection on!
This is causing me a real headache because as you can imagine it can be really inappropriate in certain situations (at work for example).
Obviously I have tried thinking of non sexy things when unwanted erections occur but it doesn’t seem to help that much. I have had counseling, seen sexual therapists, been to a hypnotherapist, taken pills to reduce libido, all of which haven’t really helped me.
2. My penis looks smaller when erect because effectively it has been ‘tied back’ and more of it is inside of me.
One thing I have tried recently is the ‘Jes Extender’ but found it very uncomfortable and impossible to sleep with on.
My main aim is to be able to have a more gradual erection and not to get them too quickly.
Any gains, in terms of length or girth that might be achieved along the way would be a bonus.
I would like as much feedback as possible and any advice on my situation and PE would be much appreciated.