Note: I’ve just finished typing the following, and it’s kinda corny, but I think it has merit. If you think I’m giving the lad *too much* encouragement, just assume I was talking to myself, and go about your day in peace.
Well, at least I now know that I have the *second* lowest self-esteem level at Thunder’s. At 5.4” BPEL, I’m not far behind you. But from what I’ve heard, a woman can’t have any kind of orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Given your current lack of faith in your ability to please via penetration, you will probably be interested in pleasing her manually or orally. That’s enough to make lots of women want repeated encounters in bed with you.
So let’s look on the bright side:
1. You clearly *want* to be a good lover. That’s more than most men are interested in. They just go in, come, get out and leave without expressing appreciation.
2. You have incentive to look into alternative methods of sexual pleasuring. Lots of men born with giant cocks aren’t interested in going down on a woman. That gets you lots of points there.
3. Given the two above, you’re already doing very well. Follow the newbie routine linked to at the top of the newbie forum, and you’ll add an appreciable amount of meat to yourself if you stick to it, and come here for advice whenever your gains start slowing up. With time, you’ll have an “impressive” and “appreciable” dick that will catch the eyes of your potential lover.
4. By doing basic PE exercises, especially jelqing, you’ll be training your “pleasure centers” to understand that ejaculation is not appropriate at the first touch. Until now, I’m guessing that the only time your penis gets touched is when you’re masturbating, and thus you’re trying to come as quickly as possible when doing so. PE exercises teach you discipline in not only making yourself *not come* but also keeping your erection down when you don’t want it there. PE will help you avoid premature ejaculation and also help you avoid those embarrassing “first date boners” that I used to get before I started my first PE routine (which I since then abandoned, to my regret).
Given this perspective, try to look at your current self-proclaimed “deficiencies” as a blessing. You have incentive to be a better all-around lover due to your currently “small” penis. When (and I do mean “when”, not “if”) you successfully complete your PE routine so as to have a penis you are proud of, you will concurrently have learned all sorts of methods to please women beyond just impressing them with the sight of seeing your cock come out of your pants. Lots of “big” guys rely on “visually-created anticipation” alone to please women, but don’t follow up on that with good technique, and lots of times the girls they have sex with are disappointed.
I’m confident that once you’ve been on a PE routine for a few months, and done some “needed-by-everybody” research into the workings of female sexuality, you will be a far better lover than 90% of the men out there… even the ones with large dicks. That means you’ll be “Grade-A”, top of the line.
In addition, by successfully confronting what you see as a huge problem in your life, and becoming a Grade-A lover, you will have proven to yourself that with effort, you can overcome any problem you have, be it with friends, family, finances, or whatever. You will not only be a better lover, but a better person.
Because you will have been able to overcome such problems, you will be able to sympathize with others about theirs, and give them the motivation they need to overcome their difficulties. You will not only be a better lover, and a better person. You will be a better friend to those you care about.
And it will all be because of the fact that you were “cursed” with a naturally small penis.
