So my wife knows I do PE, has even tried to have conversations with me while using bathmate in the tub. However, I typically choose to do it when she is a sleep or not home, as she doesn’t really care if I do it or not, so I just choose not to have her watching me.
Now, the benefit is that it’s out of the bag so I don’t have to hide all my stuff, nor worry when new stuff comes in the mail. So the pressure is completely off from that perspective.
She typically giggles when she knows I have gotten some new “Dick” contraption in the mail or when she suspects I was “exercising” while she was out. She knows what I mean when I tell her I was “exercising”.
Basically there is peace of mind and an assurance of trust in our relationship with her knowing that I practice PE. It’s good to know that she has my back and in return I got hers.
I broke the news to her when I decided to order my first pump. For me it was just time and I didn’t want the stress of hiding something like that and explaining it later. So I just turned to her in bed one night smiled and told her I was going to buy something and that it was for my long term “health”. It was a little awkward explaining it, but she has always known that I am obsessed with my penis. She laughed and said do what makes you happy.
I suspect reactions run the gamut, from horror and shock, to “I want to help with that!”, to “your a knucklehead, I don’t care, have fun!”
