Can anyone here actually stop ejaculation with the PC or BC Muscle

Haha. Yeah I definitely was not planning on having unprotected sex based on my weak PC’s muscle’s strength. If anything I go over the top with protection. Thanks for all the input guys.

Erock

Another good reference is The Multi-Orgasmic Man, by Mantak Chia.

Yeah, and don’t try to stop ejaculation at the latest point possible, get to know your orgasm (he’s a friendly guy, really) by stopping a little bit BEFORE the point of no return - squeeze there, come down a little bit, and start again; eventually, you get closer and closer to the PONR, and you learn exactly where orgasm starts, but ejaculation does not.

There is nothing you can do to reverse ejaculation, and trying to will only cause a retrograde ejaculation, which is really no fun and you’ll lose your boner, so do you and your girl a favor, and find that small moment where you orgasm but don’t cum. Good luck.

Hi

Yes, it is perfectly possible to stop ejaculation. The muscle does need training, and the best way is to follow the advice of Mantak Chia as someone else has posted.

You need to be fairly consistent with your training. Best way is if you drive or get the train etc to work every weekday, do it then. After a while when you can clench and hold the muscle it can get very pleasurable - especially driving when there must be some vibration coming up from the road.. Try it!

Mellors

Well I think I told you I never ejaculate during Peing. The peace-fire is still on but this is a pretty big deal since I never believed in the theory before—I thought it was BS.

Anyways, I was doing a 40 minute session and was staving off ejaculation and occasionally I’ll have a legitimate miscalculation of my PONR (point of no return) and accidentally ejaculated. However, since I do not want to ruin my session for the next day, I usually try to minimize the orgasm quality, thus minimizing the amount of ejaculation, thus I can recover quicker.

If I masturbate for pleasure, I am virtually useless for PE for 2-4 days. Masturbation cripples PE. I don’t do it ever. I always try to avoid ejaculation. (Remember, I’m hardcore about PE and it’s my #1 or #2 priority this year for the entire year) and anyways here is the story of my dry orgasm.

Ok, I was near the end of a session. I decided to end the session when my chess clock said 1:00 (aka 1 hour, but I started at like minute 20) and well toward the last 7-8 minutes, I increased the force & pressure of jelqing to where I was nearly losing erection due to pain.

Anyways, I accidentally was having to masturbate too hard to compensate for losing my erection. (It is very hard to maintain an erection when your dick is in agony) So anyways, I did not want to lose my erection and accidentally miscalculated and overstepped the PONR (point of no return) by the most infinitesimal margin I have ever had in my life. It was a fluke. I narrowly overstepped my PONR by probably like 5 dopamine molecules in my brain. It was a razor thin margin.

The result was that I had a virtually non-existent orgasm, no semen ejaculated, and it definitely wasn’t pleasurable; HOWEVER, my “sensitivity” waned to the point I knew I could not possibly have another orgasm within the next 180 seconds. I maintained my erection and if I was having sex, I would have been able to return to thrusting 10 seconds after I knew I overshot my PONR.

Anyways, I never believed in “dry orgasm” before because I am multi-orgasmic (I can have 6 in <15 minutes) just like I read in sexual stamina e-books. However, this was my first dry orgasm and that means I’ll be able to have sex for like 30-45 minute sessions with a full erection!

For being multi-orgasmic, (which I knew was possible just by reading the explanation and reading on forums) the decline in erection is inevitable. I would need like 1 minute to restimulate myself up to an erection after I had a weak orgasm with a weak/small load (and have to change condom obviously) but tonight I did NOT lose my erection whatsoever, and my load was like 2-3 teardrops, similar to precum.

Anyways, I was going to practice sexual stamina like in 2012 after I devote 2010 to length and 2011 to girth. Anyways, I never thought dry orgasm made sense scientifically but that’s also why I am in shock tonight. I’ll be able to have sex like a porn star (size & stamina) if I continue to train. Lastly, as an update—I love Stephany (less than Siyang, less than I used to love C).

Again, email peacefire between Jan 13th-May 1st. However, this email was not compulsive—it felt “like work” and my last ritalin dose was like 4 hours ago, so :p . I’m not on ritalin. From now on, I’m going to start trying to land in the “dry orgasm zone” which is an infinitesimal amount further than the PONR.

To explain it on a time line, I will use three “#” marks. The first # is where I would stimulate myself if I wanted to masturbate for pleasure. The P stands for PONR. The E stands for where I become erect. The S is the point where I become semi-erect. F is flacid. I begin flacid.

F====S=====E=============P=================#=
F====S=====E=============P=#=================
F====S=====E=============P===================

The second # is where I try to land if I want to be multi orgasmic.

Now imagine the 3rd diagram to be where I want to land to have a dry orgasm.
It is so razor-thin past the P, that it is 1/100th of the distance from P to #.

I do not have a strong enough Kegel muscle to do dry orgasms yet. I simply got incredibly lucky! I didn’t plan for this either. Lastly, I think sexual stamina is over rated for me anyway, so I don’t put much effort into it.

Starting BPEL x EG was around 6x4.3 in Dec 2008
Now 7.75x4.6 in Jan 2010
Goal 12x6 (I’m almost 7’ tall) and want my ideal aesthetics and my blowjobs more than giving gf pleasure

I use the BCs to postpone/control orgasm, but I don’t use the “edging” technique most people are familiar with.