Breaking point

I’ve been a member for a while. But I have never been committed to this fully. And I want to.but I have several issues that I struggle with.

I don’t have the tiniest penis.it’s right around 6 or so. I am a gay guy, so I see dick on a semi regular basis. Through the six years I have been having sex.nearly everybody has been bigger than me in length and girth. Not only that, but I have noticed that I am not able to really maintain an erection a lot of the time. Like.the boners I see on others.they are just rock hard for the whole thing. And even after they cum. Still full boner. As soon as I cum.my floppy dick goes even floppier.

So I really want to work on gaining length and girth and a bone that will last more than just a few minutes. I’m 23.and I hate that this is such a huge issue for me. It’s got me really depressed. I really would like some support. I am going to start the newbie routine again. And I was taking Yohimbe for a while. But I wanted to try that Yohimbe tea that was made from the bark of the tree itself. Does anybody know how to go about getting that?

Please.any advise would be amazing.

When you say everybody has seen bigger than you in length and girth, how do you know this? Do you ask them, or do they just say it without you asking them?

If you ask them, then I think you should stop comparing what you got (in terms of dick size) with what others have. Because if you don’t, you’ll forever be miserable. You have to come to terms with your perceived shortcomings and make the best of it. You don’t have a small dick either, so you shouldn’t make a big deal of it…

I think your confidence will get a boost if you stick with the exercises. Even if you have minimal increases in size, you’ll probably experience better erection quality (EQ)—e.g. Harder erections, more spontaneous erections, harder morning wood, reduced amount of time needed to regain erection after ejaculation, etc.).

Also, I’ve noticed that including kegel routines and edging (repeated masturbation just to the point of no return, but then stopping and restarting) have really helped too. After edging for 45 minutes, even after I ejaculate, I still stay really hard sometimes, and a lot of times I can go again not too long after.

When edging, if you feel the sensation that you might ejaculate, squeeze down hard with a kegel to stop it, then continue edging. You’ll increase your ejaculatory control this way as well. Oh, and I forgot to mention, I never used to be a shooter, but now that I practice edging, the contractions during ejaculations are way more powerful.

I suggest searching this forum to learn more about some of these techniques and more, but be careful. Some advanced techniques should not be tried until after a few months of the newbie routine to condition your penis.

Good luck.

So what type of guys have you been dating? Like if you are attracted to the muscular type you must know that gym, supplements and steroids increase the produce of testosterone that influence of hard rock boners and desire for sex, and gets your dick thicker, I don’t want to sound prejudice but there’s a huge cut of the gay population that workout and have ripped bodies I would say more the straight guys.

Other’ dicks always looks bigger than yours, even when they are the same measure - it’s a matter of perspective.

You shouldn’t have erection problems, though, at 23. I’d do a check up to see if there is some health issue. In the meanwhile, peeing should help, expecially jelqs. Don’t overdo though, better do less than do more that is needed to trigger progress.

Perceptions are funny in this case; have you ever looked at your self in a full length mirror? If it try and you might be surprised at how large you look. As for the guys constantly maintaining a full erection after they pop? I suspect chemical augmentation in more than a few.