Boner and jelqing

Things seem to be going well with the newbie routine, but I have some questions about the erection. I know you should go for about 50% but when doing the jelqs I don’t feel aroused whatsoever so it is difficult to maintain this level. When I look at porn, it gets TOO erect, to a level where I am sure injury is more possible. Is it just a matter of getting used to it? Does someone have a kind of mental trick? Also, what about beating off halfway through the jelqs to restore an erection? Any thoughts shared would be appreciated.

I have the same problem, what I do is I get a full erection by watching porn then I do really light gripped jelqs until my wood goes down abit.

"Beating off” halfway through a jelqing session is fine, this also helps to get new oxygen back into the penis, which can’t be bad can it?

Try to start jelqing from almost flaccid. Then, arouse yourself to the wanted level of erection. When you feel it subsiding, try kegeling while jelqing. It helped me.

I do my jelqs in sets of 30.

— masturbate to reach desired erection level
— 30 jelqs
— masturbate to return to desired erection level
— another 30 jelqs

and so on until I am done.

Thanks, I will try these things.

No, do not be tempted to masturbate while jelqing. Don’t look at porn, either. When you’re jelqing, pay attention to what you’re doing, rather than watching other things or trying to please yourself into getting an erection.

Usually it is just a matter of getting used to it. You can think about naked women if you really have a problem with keeping your erection, but usually after you get used to it you’ll be able to control pretty well your level of erection. If your penis really gets completely flaccid during jelqing, that’s probably cause you don’t push enough blood in, but that usually doesn’t happen.

So just go by your feeling.

Kegeling in between each jelq pumps blood in. If you start flaccid, push blood towards the head, kegel blood into it, after 30 seconds or so, it should be semi erect. If you keep kegeling blood into it, it will get near fully erect. If you get too erect either stop the kegels in between strokes or wait 30 secs for it to subside. I agree with Mdrg in that you shouldn’t masturbate or watch porn. It’s a different erection when done with jeqling, like it’s more of a light puffy filled with blood type rather then rock hard. And it should be possible to bend it easier without being painful. Not that you would want to bend it unless you were doing Mr Orange bends or plumped bends. But it just seems like if you get it erect by doing the jelqs instead of arousal you have a more flexible and puffed up boner to work with. And less chance of injury. And when you finish your flaccid will look so fat, like it’s been in a penis pump.