Bigger really better

Nothing wrong with that when you have something as substantive to add as you have. :leftie:

I concur wholeheartedly. Girls have access to internet porn as well. If they are being directed to a paradigm of a monster cock it may well stick regardless of the reality.

There is a disconnect between what’s real and what’s thought to be ideal.

LOL.

I like the double meaning here, even if I don’t believe it.

I don’t know if I agree with this ‘mental’ component. I think the imaginations of both sexes are pretty heavily involved. I guess it’s true that men tend to more commonly view it as a physical activity in the same way that they view sports, but there is always a little of both on both sides of the sexual divide. I’d agree that the emphases are probably different. Interesting question.

I mean that girls put more emotions in sex, than guys. In order for a girl to feel satisfied while having sex, it is quite important that they have feelings for the guy. I´m not saying that girls can´t have great ONS, but this is more important for girls than for guys.

This is because of their brain, and if their brain thinks they need a HUGE cock, then they can´t have anything less. At least that´s what I think.

I don’t agree that sex is more emotional for women than it is for men.

What I think is men are better able to compartmentalize and distinguish between the emotional and the purely physical. In that we seem to have greater detachment; that doesn’t mean the emotions aren’t there, it just means they are viewed differently. This seems to be true of how women react and deal with a whole range of issues, not just sex. In some ways this inability to distinguish is a blind-spot for women, in other ways our inability to see those connections is a blind-spot for men.

As far as the importance of imagination, the same is true for men as women: if we imagine we have to have a Playboy Bunny or Penthouse Pet (or whatever the defining criteria is) then we get locked up in the status of that and feel we are ‘settling’ if we have anything less. Isn’t that the case? I think it cuts both ways for different reasons.

That’s not true at all. Get a 5’1” girl saying that she needs a 10” dick to be satisfied (This is assuming she has never had one as big or not even near). She is still, to put it blunt, going to get wrecked by it. She might pretended she enjoyed it but in fact it hurt. Girls are always in a constant facade, we know this most of the time but we don’t know how to look through it. The reason most people are here is because even though a girl may only be able to handle 6”, she might want more and even if she doesn’t, we assume she does.

My girlfriend is 5’4”. We have never had sex (online relationship, sadly, i know :P We’re spending the summer together). But she’s told me that the only time she did it was with someone 6”. She didn’t measure so she was guessing and I’ve heard that women are bad at guessing so my insecurity kind of diminishes when I think that maybe he was smaller and she over-guessed but it amplifies when I think to myself what if she under-guessed and he was 7” maybe bigger? That would top me and it makes me feel bad because what if she’s just not even going to feel me? That’s why I’m here. To be big for her because sometimes I joke and tell her I have a 5” dick and she says it doesn’t matter and that it would be enough because she loves me. So then I think to myself well maybe she’s just telling me this because she does love me a lot and doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. All in all, she has a thing for black people. She has never been with one but this still intimidates me quite a bit. I am here for her.

The world is a messed up place. All the psych that has been put into men’s AND women’s mind makes insecurity and anxiety a growing epidemic.

Yeah, you make some good points.

But Sliver post made me think, you know. Take for example a normal 20 year old from the US. She probably has heard “the bigger the better”, seen porn, heard of people that were great in bed and had a big cock( which doesn´t necessarily relate) , so her brain probably believes this, and then she is under the impression that she does need a big cock. Now, of course, the majority of women don´t need a BIG cock. But even less would need it, if the things I mentioned above were not in our society.

Now, imagine a girl that has never seen porn, none of her friends are sexually active ( and have no stories to tell about their well-hung partners and things like that ), and she has never much about big penises. Maybe penis size wouldn´t even be something she thought about at all ? Who knows, I just think it´s an interesting thought :)

I think your above hypotheticals tend to be over simplified, Norwegian.

In general the mating dance between men and women is much more complicated and has a lot more involved than penis size.

Generally people who are at eye level with a cock will tend to see it as larger rather than smaller.

Most women have over-estimated my size, thinking I’m much bigger than I am. Only one woman made an accurate guess - she’s a surgeon (who has seen literally thousands of dicks) and has developed an accurate eye for measuring distances and human proportions.

I think she’s telling you that because it’s true. In general penis size is more of a priority for men than women - not 100% (obviously) but most of the time. This has to do with how women prioritize things as I mentioned in my previous post.

Oh boy, here we go. There is no reliable data that proves race has any significant impact on penis size.

My surgeon friend has anecdotally confirmed this for me, as have a couple of past girlfriends (and the current one too come to think of it).

Don’t let your imagination run wild. As Chris Rock has said, “There are brothers out there with only two or three inches…”

The trick is to work on getting oneself grounded in reality, that makes it easier to get others to look at the truth, or at least reconsider their opinion’s with regard to what they believe to be true.

:leftie:

I’d call her on being totally full of shit.

That’s a really unusual need. And one that’s easy to test. Get a giant dildo and see how she does. :rolleyes:

Lots of people, men and women both, talk a bigger, better, badder game than they can really play.

That’s just human nature.

Yeah, I completely agree with you on that, but on the subject of penis size, I think Sliver made a lot of good points:) You both do !

:)

It’s what a forum is for. Lots of different perspectives around.

I’m also not so sure that Sliver and I are saying things that are so very different.

I think his point about the mind is right on; it’s just been my experience that it manifests itself somewhat differently in men and women.

It’s pretty clear that in certain areas men and women are very different and have different priorities. But I’d suggest that overall we’re more the same than we are different.

We just arrive at certain things differently.

Pussies.

Tits.
Now.

We will see how she reacts to me in the summer. I know this might not make any difference but she’s a smart girl so it makes her guesses seem more viable.

Trust me. I know personally that I have a bigger dick than some black guys but in general I think it IS true that on average, people of African descent are bigger (not taking into consideration the anthropological Out Of Africa Theory :P). When I say bigger, I mean that on average they might be a 7”. Compared to the Caucasian average of 6”? I don’t know, I don’t really look at dicks except for in porn.

I am a very insecure person due to anxiety. I just want to be bigger for that special girl. I think we all do. :)

Need. Tits. Now.

Trust you? With what?

It seems your belief regarding race is entirely supposition; you seem to be saying it’s so because you believe it’s so.

There’s no real evidence that it’s so, however.

Don’t be anxious. If your signature is to be believed you have a perfectly respectable size. Your length is above average and your girth is well above average. Seriously. At 5.5” of girth you can wear Magnums.
Your dick is big.

Worry about being a good boyfriend. :leftie:

Here you go, andro: some nice tits. ;)
Best I could do on short notice…

I think I’m a good boyfriend. As good as anyone can be in an online relationship haha. But you’re right, I guess only time will tell.

P.S. - When I said trust me its because I’ve seen a couple of black guys and noticed that I am bigger than them. Although not by a substantial amount.

:)