Bigger not always better

Well, being rational is not appropriate? When people say they can’t live without someone or so, it’s like always exaggregation, which means her saying what she said could be correct (at least in her beliefs)- and this shouldn’t have any impact on their marriage, because there’s a reason for them being together for as long as they have been, right?

Yes, it seems to me the penetration depth is limited only by camera needs: often going balls deep just make the shot not that good and observable.
Moreover, even if he’s not constantly balls deep, he is at some time.

Apart from this, his size doesn’t look so huge, neither she seems to be in pain. Actually, I’d say she could take twice that size.

Its definately a ball-breaking type of remark. First of all who wants to think about being hit by a bus, and who wants to know that the big guy is next in line if anything happens to you.

Think of a similar remark that is a worldly possibility and say it to her. Won’t feel good at all.

It’s cool he is secure in his relationship but it seems like she may think of the “big dick ex” from time to time. While he was probably not 9”, he could have been 8 x 6 or so and I bet she knows she could accommodate him now.

I’m wondering if that comment was his motivation for being on Thunders now.

Women are evil and will cheat it they are so inclined. And probably wouldn’t get caught.

You pretty much nailed the secret of porn. It is all about getting the best shot for the camera, what is going to look best.

On the other hand I have read about women not being to handle the length of their boyfriends, husbands - there are a couple products that address this. There was actually a thread about this on LPSG not long ago. Basically a silicone donut the guy puts on the base of his penis to limit the amt of penetration. I wish I could remember the name of the product.

I remember an episode of Family Business, the tv show following Seymore Butts, when they were actually designing this tool.
I remember it because of this moron, a supposed artist, who was hired to draw a realistic sketch of the tool: all he could deliver was 8======) :D

Anyway the product is now discontinued; not that much of a success, I guess.
Probably not that many women eagerly waiting for a tool capable of preventing deep strokes, and certainly not that many men.

Why would she say that…?

@Howsithanging: I won’t be rude, but what your what your wife has said to you is just fucked up in my op and if I had a wife telling me something like this, that would pretty much hurt me. Who knows if she is even loyal :/

Do a Google search for “Not Too Deep Donut Set”.

I think that may be it.

I was thinking of a british product - finally found it:

Come Close
http://www.come … uk/product.html

comeclose
a solution to painful sex

What is it?
ComeClose is a protector ring worn outside the body that limits the depth of penetration during sex. It is safe, comfortable, reliable and easy to use. Although the patented design looks quite simple, its secret is two-fold: expertly designed proportions and the ideal material.

How do I use it?
ComeClose slips over your partner’s erect penis and fits snugly at the base of the shaft. It has been carefully designed to the exact proportions that will prevent the tip of your partner’s penis hitting your cervix during penetration.

Why does it work?
ComeClose acts as a cushioned ‘spacer’ between you and your partner. It is one inch thick and is worn at the base of the shaft, against your partner’s body. Although it feels to you both as if the entire penis is inside your body, the inch closest to his body is inside the ring, not inside you. This means that the tip is one inch further away from your cervix and will not hit you.

How does it feel?
For him: the centre of the ring grips the shaft of the penis, providing extra pleasure.
For you: the flat surface of the ring feels smooth and comfortable against your body, providing cushioned comfort on the outside whilst preventing the tip of the penis from hitting you inside.

How much does it cost?
The ComeClose protector ring costs just £24.99 plus £5 post and packing. Less than a night out. Why not try it today?

amar7,

There are some women saying remarks like this all day long. In their mind they are being completely honest. Somewhere along the line they forgot to respect your feelings. Respecting of the feelings is something thats almost automatic when “you are in love”…

These ball breaking remarks do have a sum toll, they create pain, and that pain will keeep you focused on it. Your esteem and confidence can diminish, even be “stripped” from you while you are in the presense of a ball breaker.

From having to experience it, if anyone ever tried to verbally explain to me that this can be the effect, I’m not sure I would believe them.

If she is not issuing comments like this often he needs to get it where she does not want to do it. IE: issue a similar worldly possible remark designed to impact her in the same way.

If she is ball breaking him often, he needs to get the hell outta there. Who knows how much of his lifeforce he’s sacrificing being around a ball-breaking bitch.

On the donut ring. If you are really long, you may be causing your partner alot of pain. The donut will allow you to do hard strokes without hitting too far a depth. The too far a depth may cause her to lose interest in sex, so for a small population it makes sense.

Recently I dated this chick who has a short pussy, I´m around 7” BP, and if I press hard on certain positions, she would experience pain not pleasure,after a few minutes, she would want me to stop and cum right away otherwise.

Avantasia,

And over time if she correlates sex with pain, her interest in it will dimish. Some of the guys are not getting that simple point.

There may be women who are into having pain while having sex. Guys say that there are. I’ve never met one.

My strong impression is that when it comes to having sex, women are into comfort and cleanliness more than any thing else.