Bigdinker's introduction

Hello there.

I am bigdinker, and obviously this is an alias as I prefer privacy when I am discussing matters like these. That being said, I have never been obsessed with my penis size because I had always thought I was average. However, it turns out that upon discovering this site, I had been mismeasuring my length the entire time. My NBPEL and BPEL stats are respectively 7” and 7” and a half. Given my stats and adding to the fact that I am Asian, I am not here for PE but for advice. I am fortunate of my size given the cruel, western stereotypes of my ethnicity, but despite this I have an unfortunate shortcoming: It is ever so hard for me to get a full erection and maintain one. Usually when I get my ‘erection’ it is roughly only 80% of its full size, ‘usually’ because on rare occasion I can ever achieve my full size. On all occasions I face trouble maintaining the erection.

On a usual erection, the base of my penis is noticeably softer than other parts. I believe this relative softness is the cause of my not achieving a full erection, because on a full erection my penis is consistently hard. I wish to remedy this problem and that of my erectile-endurance, and I suppose posting in this forum is a suitable place to start. I am wondering if fellow posters could recommend me to a guide that will help solve the problems I have explained. I know already there are guides out there but I would like people to make recommendations based off personal experience.

Thank you.

You don’t mention your age or health status, have you tried taking Viagra and if so did you get fully erect? Are you on any medication? Have you had any penis injuries?

Do you have ED issues at all times or just when you are having sex with a partner? Do you wake up with morning erections or get erections in the middle of the night. If you are generally not able to achieve strong erections and don’t get spontaneous ones in the night or when you wake up then it could be a sign of a larger health issue. In that case I’d go to a doctor and get checked for things like: cardiovascular disease, sleep apnea, low testosterone level.

You could try a kegel routine to see if it improves EQ.

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I am 19 years of age, have never used Viagra or erectile-inducing drugs before, and my ED issues are at all times. The base of my erection’s girth is substantially narrower than my shaft. It is roughly 4” whereas the rest of my shaft is a consistent 5”.

I’ve never woken up with an erection nor have I ever achieved spontaneous ones. I am certain I am not a sufferer of cardiovascular disease as I have looked up the main symptoms. However, I do have sleeping problems such as mild snoring which may indicate sleep apnea, and also my ED which is indicative of low testosterone levels but this could stem from a completely unrelated issue.

Your efforts toward self diagnosis are admirable … it sounds like you have done a good bit of homework.

However, unless you are a doctor, there is a good deal that you are likely to overlook or misinterpret.

Based on what you have said, I would consider the following:

1. Take a deep breath and relax … you have a significantly above average dick … we just need to figure out what it is gonna take to tune up the way it is currently functioning.

2. Follow Grower44’s advice and start a Kegel routine (probably the safest of all PE exercises)

3. Start a light jelqing routing a few times a week and see how it goes. Many newbies report improved EQ when they start jelqing. (My EQ significantly improved when I began to focus on Jelqing)

4. Do an honest assessment of what is going on in your life. It isn’t obvious to me from what you have said … but it is possible that some of these EQ issues that you mention may be originating between your ears.

5. GO to your GP for a regular check-up and discuss your concerns with him.

Good luck dude! Keep us posted

At your age you should be a walking hard-on, you should really talk to you doctor and tell him you want blood work done to test your testosterone levels. Hows your energy level and general fitness? Maybe a visit to the urologist is in order, to check why the base is smaller than the rest, that is usually a side effect of certain PE exercises but in your case it isn’t.