I PE on and off as I feel like it (so probably every other day) with full-erection jelqing and regular streches (rotary, down, left, right, out), as well as doing some BC muscle exercises. I also do an exercise of my own devising, wherein I get a full erection, then push my penis down, then let go. That whole thing takes about half a second, so it’s a quick motion, designed to elongate my ligs. I also do a thing where I kegel and then do a manual clamp for about thirty seconds.
When I started I did regular jelqing. I got the red spots and such, but that all disappeared within a month or two. I kept jelqing, gradually working my way up to full-erection. During this time I also did the manual clamping. Around December I started doing kegels and the aforementioned quick-release exercise. Around a month ago I started doing the streches.
I have never had an injury - no donuts, no thrombosis. The worst thing that happened to me was I was trimming my hairs and snagged some skin on my penis. It didn’t hurt, but when I was doing the manual clamping my penis burst and bled a VERY tiny bit along the shaft. I stopped for two weeks and everything’s been smooth sailing from there.
I do all of this in the shower. For lube I use Dove soap.
I started out October 31 as a 5x4.5 BPEL, and now I’m a 6.5x5.5 . My question is, when is enough enough? I think my girth is pretty good now, but I’m worried that it will become too big and that I will be unable to perform oral, or that vaginal penetration will be uncomfortable.
My questions are these:
1) Is the disappearing of the red spots normal? Now I can full-erection jelq without any spots whatsoever. I get no numbness or anything, and now I find myself getting many unwanted public erections - I seriously doubt that my sexual function is impaired.
2) What is the common consensus for girth? I’m aiming for 8 length, but I’m worried that in the process I’ll get too thick. Like I said I want to be able to receive oral, but also be thick enough where I surprise my partner in bed when we have vaginal sex.
3) What exercises do I need to do to gain length after I reach my optimal girth? Or, should I do exercises that put more emphasis on length than girth? I have a feeling that any exercise I do will also end up in girth gain, so that if I do length exercises after I reach my optimal girth I’ll go over and be screwed.
4) With regard to stretches - if I only did stretches, would it negatively affect my girth? In other words, would my penis also get thinner as it got longer?
In short - I want to be 8 length and whatever is optimal for girth, for oral but also very pleasurable vaginal.