Become flaccid while jelqing
Right before a jelqing session I make my penis 100% erect, since It eventually goes down. But the problem here is that it goes pretty down. At this point, my penis is very red, heavy, and hanging longer than normal. Most of the time I kegel blood into the penis and then jelq. Then I repeat. Is this normal? Or should my penis be actually hard the whole time while I jelq. Not necessarily 100% erect, but should it be at a point when you’re jelqing and your penis is actually hard? Any tips and words of wisdom would be helpful.