BC muscle and down-time' question
Question about the BC/PC muscle, I’ve been experimenting around with it, but I’m not sure if I’m producing the desired effect.
Depending on the BC contraction strength and `point’ where it’s contracted, the feeling of orgasm either fades away, or it’s like a minor one without `shooting’. However, I do seem to `lose my mojo’ a little after doing either of the above, is this normal, or was my Energizer Bunny impression I got a bit naive?
I’ve also found this was impossible(?) to do with any sort of stimulation at all, which also rules out my stealth impression :)
Btw, a stupid sex question; after ejaculation, I know it’s normal to go into `down-time’, but why is this, what happens, and can this time vary between guys? When I was with my now-ex, when I came, I felt a few negative effects that made sex sort-of not worth it. I had physical tiredness but a feeling of anxiety, and I could never sleep afterwards, which made her think she needed a new bed or something. For up to five or six days afterwards I have a feeling of anxiety/regret/frustration, and sex doesn’t interest me for a day or two later, making me wonder how the hell you guys could possibly `play the hairy banjo’ five or six days a week. If I ever `played the hairy banjo’ and went the whole way, I swear my personality seems to change, I act like a retard and worry about what I say.
I’m still trying to get used to talking about this, still feels weird as hell :)
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