Bathmate Hydro for 40 Plus Males
I am a 40 plus male and new to focusing on my penis health.
I would say this is my second time in a decade that I have found myself on this site researching penis enhancement.
The first time I believe that it was that I was insecure about my penis size. I did start Jelqing and seen what I would consider temporary gains, but I did notice that I had better quality erections. At some point I stopped doing it, and I can’t remember why. Since then I have seen a decline in my sexual activity, and a slow decline in self-esteem. I believe that at some point I must have surrendered to my depression.
In my younger years my penis was about 7 1/4 “inches in length, but only 5” in girth. I was happy with my penis because I felt that it might not have been the biggest, but It was above average. As you age and your testosterone levels drop, so does the size and quality of erections.
I have been married for 20 years and I have a beautiful wife. Over the last decade we have dealt with many challenges mentally and emotionally, Including significant losses in family members. Recently my wife has been expressing her concern with our sexual life (1 per month). This has put some mental stress on me, and created increasing doubt in my ability to perform. I do not have an issue with getting erections, but I get a little freaked out about rather I will be able to maintain the erection during sex. Sometimes this overwhelming fear causes me to focus more on my penis then the actual act of sex with my wife. Ultimately my goal is to satisfy my wife, and feel good while doing it.
About three weeks ago I decided that I was tired of worrying, and became determined to do something about it. The first thing I did was started two separate testosterone boosters. One I take 3 times a day, and the other before I go to bed. I talked to my wife about what I was doing and explained to her that I needed to do something about this. The second thing I purchased an air pump from a local sex toy store. My wife was not aware of the air pump, I was too embarrassed to tell her about it so I hid it from her.
The Boosters: The first thing I noticed is that I was noticing my little buddy more often. It was like finding a long-lost friend. I couldn’t tell you 100% at that point if this was because of the boosters or my changed focus on my sexuality.
The Pump: I had to sneak around to use it, and attempt to hide this large pumping device which made it very difficult to use. What I did notice is that when I used it, I seen results. My penis was fuller with a small increase in girth for hours after use. Based on what I was seeing I could tell that there would be some long-term benefits of continued use. Unfortunately, after only two weeks of use my air pump broke. With the loss of my Pump I started Jelqing again for a couple short sessions every day, which I explained to my wife that I was attempting to increase circulation to my penis because that is what “Men’s Fitness” stated I should do.
Also, the loss of the pump made me face two realities, one I needed a better product and two I needed to let my wife know what I was doing. I did a ton of research and found myself looking at the Bathmate. When I made the decision to purchase another pump, I talked to my wife. I felt that it was time for me to be open with her about my desires, and she was very accepting. Plus I didn’t want to have to hide or lie about this, and that is so much easier.
One thing I will note is that this morning I woke up with an erection that I haven’t had in years. You know that one that you have to hide when you are waking up that won’t seem to go down. It’s like you penis is yelling at you first thing in the morning “Lets do this thing”.
I purchased the Bathmate Hydro X30 and received this afternoon. To be honest I was super excited about using it for the first time. I purchased it from Batematedirect. Com and it came in discreet packaging. I immediately ran to my shower to see how this thing works.
The locking button at the tip wasn’t all that difficult to figure out. When it was engaged it allowed the Bathmate to hold water. You disengage the lock after slipping your penis in, and before your first pump. It did come with a comfort sleeve, and I tried it both with and without. I preferred it without the sleeve, but I can’t explain why. I didn’t have a shower strap, so I was pleasantly surprised that I could just let it hang off my body. I did about 4 short session or around 3-5 minutes, and not the recommended 15 minutes. After each session I could see that it was having more and more effect on my penis. When I finally took it off, I didn’t pull out this monster cock but I was very happy with the results. My penis was thicker and longer when made me scream like a school girl. Though I believe this is temporary, it still made it worth it to hold that guy in my hand. I did some light jelqing with coco butter to push the blood around. It took allot of control not to shake that little guy around until he puked, and that was even after having sex with my wife this morning. So things are definitely looking up.
So my first impression is this thing is pretty cool, and I am looking forward to my next session.
Last edited by 40plusmale : 02-15-2018 at .