I think your fear of an unstable base is unfounded, but I do believe it is an aesthetics issue instead. Your mind is playing a trick on you. I don’t think your dick will break off or wobble out of alignment like my car always does. I have heard of people with a difference of as much as 1” between the base to the mid or top. There dicks didn’t break off yet, I am sure of it.
I suggest hanging to help that out. Base girth will plop right on for you.
Yeah I hear ya TT, I don’t think it will fall off but I have noticed that at the base of my penis its softer/bendier when erect than the rest of my penis. I would like the base to be thicker so much so that I am slightly put off girth work because of further baseball batting. I am currently just hanging at the moment, but am new to it. I hope you are right! I would love a base girth plop :)