Ask what ever you want

Thanks and sorry Figo,

Question which MrJe ask made me re-think cock ring while jelq.

Because what I thought is done while jelqing is cell break.

Now I’m bit confused.

Hi Guys,

I’m 30 and I’m in love with my wife’s best friend. She was our maid of honor, and since we started working together I can’t get her out of my mind.

I am feeling like a stupid teenager, it wasn’t supposed to happen at this stage of my life. What can I do?

Wisike

If you really love that women you work with them you need to tell her how you feel.

Is she in love with you too?

If she feels the same way then you’re gonna have to figure out what you’re gonna to say your wife. Don’t cheat on your wife man, man up and tell her how you feel so she can move on.

Just because we marry one woman doesn’t make us immune from falling in love with other women. It happens to most guys at some point. 90% of what makes the ‘other’ woman intensely desirable is actually the fact that you can’t have her because you are married. She is forbidden fruit. It’s like telling a child they can’t have candy - all they can think about is how much they want candy.
Work on making your marriage fabulous. Or at the very least stop working with your wife’s best friend.

Make sure when you hook up with your wife’s best friend you are very discreet. It’s best to do it at seedy motels, preferably the kind with hourly rates. Think up excuses for where you are gonna be ahead of time to tell your wife. You have to prep her for these dalliances, preferably many days in advance. Keep a couple really good excuses on the back burner that you can use in a pinch. Planning is the key to being a good liar.

When you are with her friend pay for everything in cash, or make her pay. Make sure you shower before going home to your wife but don’t use soap - you just want to get her friend’s smell off you, you don’t want to smell like you showered. Check your car twice for her friend’s things, even if you weren’t in it that night. Avoid public places whenever possible, or go out of town with your new mistress to minimize the chances of being spotted.

You have to make absolutely sure her friend won’t get all righteous and say anything either. You can do this with threats or guilt, a combination works best. The threats can be financial, legal, even violent. Dig up some dirt on the friend (your wife could probably help with this), and use it to blackmail her if she gets out of line. Make her feel guilty, the kind of guilt that makes her not want to tell your wife. “She would be crushed if she found out, she might end it right there.” “Our family would be ruined. My children would be scarred for life.” Something like that.

If you get caught deny, deny, deny. Even if it seems hopeless, the power of denial is great. Your wife may never really believe you or ever really trust you again, but who cares? You got away with it!

That’s not guilt you feel, it’s victory.

I’m obviously joking. Either man up and tell her, or man up and don’t act on it and try to make things great with your wife.

Roots

Mr. Kenish,
I have never been cheater nor intent to be, at least “physically” because I think I am doing it by thoughts. She is not even close to know my feelings about her. And as soon as I know our relationship resumes to just coworkers.

Firegoat,
You may be are right. Although since to the very first time I met her, this girl is so damn attractive to me, that feeling was growing most to the fact of the desire for the impossible.

In fact, I have keeping it hidden in somewhere deep inside of my heart, just because my wife was always so nice with me and our marriage is just great.

I’m gonna quick my job on December 31. Until there I have to save some money, prepare myself for the next step, and hopefully I don’t do anything stupid.

Rootsnatty,

You seem to have good background on this matter. Please, tell me your story!
Thanks my friend, your post put a big smile on my face. Needed it.

Haha, not a problem. I’ve never been married and my running around on girls days are behind me, but that stuff just started to pour out when I started typing. Maybe that’s a bad sign… ;)

Maybe that’s why you’ve never been married. Come to think of it, maybe that’s why I’ve never been married either… :D

Does body fat have any relation to visible length? Read that Dr. Oz said 35 lbs lost is an inch of visibility? It seems to make sense but have some people lost significant weight/body fat% and not seen an increase?

Being overweight = thicker fat pad = less visible penis. The leaner you are the longer you will look, in general. This is not an exact science though, it will vary from person to person.

Did anyone see Manchester City vs Bayern Munich today?

This happened to me last wednesday morning. I put on a Velcro wrap near base of penis not to tight not to loose , i have done this numerous times while sitting down and have gotten good expansion , very little fluid buildup , doesn’t tum my penis purple, just trying to keep an erection as long as possible , but last wednesday i did something different I just simply stood up the whole time , the difference was great ,the expansion was better , firmer , thicker. And i felt a nice stretch that was comfortable . I know this is nothing new , because there is nothing new at thunders if it can be discussed its already been discussed , but it was new to me and i was exited at the expansion and just thought i would pass it along. Thank you thunders for a great site. Have you experienced maybe a breakthrough?

What do you guys use to clean or disinfection of your bathmate or other water pumps?

I don’t have a bathmate, but I think the stuff that starts to grow on the inside of my water pump’s cylinder adds to my gains. ;)

In seriousness I just use soapy water, or some cleanser I bought from a sex shop when I bought my very first pump if I am trying to do a thorough cleaning.