Anyone working with 4.5 girth here ?

Hey you guys I’m new to TP and I’m curious.. Are there any guys here with 4.5 girth ? I’m a little down about my size well girth to be exact. My stats are 6.25 in x 4.5 girth actually around 5.5 in length because of curve and high erection angle. But I wanted to know has anyone had any experience having sex with the same girth I have as I’m pretty insecure about my size and a virgin as well. Being a 20 year old virgin in college is depressing and I’m pretty scared to have sex with my current size especially at college being a virgin and insecure about my size. The only positive about my penis is my high erection angle and my upward curve. Hopefully that helps to give the impression of more girth. Again I’m just curious to see how many guys are here that has or had 4.5 girth and how you fared with it.

Thanks for having me !

As it has been said here many times. GO HAVE SEX, and don’t worry about the size of you penis!!!!!
I have a penis about your size and have had sex with many women. I have enjoyed them all, and none have complained about my size to me.
I was 5.5 inches BPEL with 4.25 girth until I was about 45 years old. I am now 52 year old and I am 6.25 BPEL and 4.6 girth.

Again. Don’t worry about your size. Go have fun!!!!

Take care,

Get em while you can! Right now it seems to be a big deal but when you get older you will be kicking yourself for not going for it. Women don’t care about size as much as you think. If they do.. Oh well, you got yours. If you’re just looking to hookup, do just that. I’m young as well. We’re in our prime. Take advantage of that.

I kept my wife happy with a 4.4” x 5.5” for 40 years, until I started PE. Suck it up and give it a try.

I just measured the girth of my index finger and my middle finger combined. It was a little less than 4.25”. Those two fingers have made my wife crazy. So… You have more than enough to please a woman.

Have fun and please lose your virginty to someone you love. Though we aren’t together I’ll never regret losing my virginty with someone I loved. Hindsight says I’d wait for marriage. Just my two cents.

Man it feels like I’m missing the most important ingredient and that’s girth. I don’t know what to do.

Did you read any of the posts lol? Don’t worry about it. Try not to care what anybody thinks or says. Important thing is you enjoy yourself.

And meanwhile, do PE to add girth, so that in the future you will be able to feel less insecure.

You are right about average girth. Most woman wont have had much thicker dick then you.

If she had sex with 100 guys 90 were around your size +/- 0,4.

You’re pretty average. That is not a bad thing to be. Start the Newbie Routine and stop worrying about it. Important Newbie Threads/Info

I was 5.75”x4.5” for over 20 years. I had sex with a handful of girls before I met my wife in college. Never had any complaints and my wife was having plenty of vaginal orgasms before I started PE. She is now fully aware of my PE and desire for more size, but doesn’t get why I want it. It really is more in our heads than theirs.

Listen to the guys that are telling you to go for it while you’re young! While being careful and safe of course.

I will try to think positive but it’s hard to think otherwise when you know most guys on campus are bigger than you and more experienced than you. Girls are experienced as well and most girls on this campus are size queens. I appreciate everyone’s advice but it’s hard to stay positive when you know you’re a virgin in college and you’re insecure about your size. Hopefully I can give the impression with more girth with my upward curve and high erection angle. That’s my only hope. You guys I just want to be confident that I can satisfy a girl with my penis that is all.

It has much more to do with your insecurity than your actual size. Lots of guys here dealing with that. Stick around, these forums can help with both.

How do you "know" this? I doubt you’ve measured a majority of the erect penises on campus, so this is just something you’re choosing to believe. Look at the average threads or go to http://mraverage.com/stats.htm that page shows the stats from the Lifestyles study. Which, for it’s flaws, is better than many. When you compare yourself to those numbers, you’re longer than more than half and .17" narrower. Trust me, woman don’t deal in .17" differences in girth. It’s imperceptible and meaningless to them.

Most of the girls are size queens is even less realistic. I’ve done a lot of reading on size preferences and I’m convinced that maybe 5% of women really are size queens. More likely some young women may like to tell fish stories about the giant cock they had. Most of them are as full of it as the guys that claim to have such a cock.

Again, spend some time looking at the threads around here that deal with what is the true average and you’ll realize how few men actually fall out of the average range and that most women don’t differentiate much between one average range dick and another.

As for the experience thing. Not a big deal. Lots of guys with experience likely still suck in bed. Once you’ve sealed the deal with a girl and you’ve got her clothes off, go slow, be gentle and pay attention to any queues she gives you as to what feels good. Try asking her what she likes. You might just learn something that way.

NOTSUREIFSERIOUS?

Sounds like prime example of size anxiety imposed by porn and a skewed view in society.
Almost too perfect.

You want to gain experience through doing.
Needs courage.
Do it or die trying. Get social with the girls.
Even if you were double the size or half the size.
Then use what you have the best way possible.

The way you act right now a bigger dick wouldnt help you and maybe would do more harm then good to all those “size queens”?

Get some experience with the girls and engage with the newbie routine if you want.

And as said statisticly all the girls are taking guys your size all the time.
It could take you years to get a bigger dick while smaller dicks fuck all the girls you want all day long.

I hang around mostly girls, and have been with a fair amount of college women (I live in a college town). I’d bet you money if you asked any girl what they want in a man. Dick size is way down the list if they even mention it. Most of the time they say humor, looks, smarts, tall, athletic, etc. If you act confident and be fun it isn’t hard to get a girl in bed. And if they had fun with you hanging out but you sucked at sex, they will not hesitate to hangout the next time you want company. Its not all about sex to them. Its about a good time. Give them what they want and they will gladly give up what you want.