Anyone ever ridiculed you about penis size?

Anyone had that happen and if so how did it affect you and does it still affect you today, and your confidence level etc..

For me I’m 5.25 BPEL and 5” EG

But when I do physical exercise like running, for some reason my penis kind of shrinks similar to if I jumped into cold water.

First time I got shamed or felt shame about it was school right around when some of the guys started to grow pubes, I was a bit behind with the pubic hair and so I’d avoid the shower.

But this particular day the teacher singled me out and ‘made’ me undress and walk into the shower in full view and the focus of everybody.

It was humiliating, no pubes and penis in small mode after the running we’d done, and at that age it sort of sets your mindset going forward.

Most the women have been OK, I’ve slept with a couple of hundred + so plenty to show it to.

One women I couldn’t get it up and rather than tell her the truth that I was missing my ex and feeling depressed, I sort of acted a bit bravado and blew her off. I guess she felt rejected which was fair enough, and was bit of butch feminist type who then took it upon herself to announce to my friends in the bar that I had this kind of small penis and made fun of it, in front of me.

I lived in a small town and of course that one spread like wildfire as everyone loves juicy gossip like that. Was a long time ago and I don’t really give a fuck about that too much nowadays, but at the time it was humiliating to be sure.

Only other women, out of the more than 200 I’ve slept with who ever mentioned it, was Korean women I had a fling with, and she said her friend had told her Caucasian cock is huge. She actually had a big hole, so maybe she was hoping I’d have one that would fill her up, which I guess is understandable.

Apart from that I’d say for sure it’s affected my confidence, I think I’d have had a bit more swagger had I been blessed with a large one.

But I guess you can’t win them all.

Nowadays I tend to not worry what women think, whereas when I was younger I was such a people pleaser that I don’t think I even enjoyed sex most the time as I was too stuck in my head.

Nowadays I give more of a fuck about me, I still give a fuck about them too, but I’m much more inclined to think she has a big hole and she doesn’t really match me, rather than be down on myself over my size.

Fells much better this way.

Though an extra inch! 2 inch and I still think it’d add to my swagger!

Humpty, from your post you sound like a pretty sorted and well balanced guy. As you say, only a couple of women ever mentioned size, which reflects reality - most women, like most men, are happy to get laid; we don’t get hung up about breast size even if we have a ‘favourite’ size.

Any guy who gets sex from a woman and disparages her breasts (or pussy) is likely far more into themselves than the person they are having sex with. Same goes for women.

Advice for everyone…. If a woman (or man) has a go at your penis size, move on. The next one most likely will not. You can’t please everyone, all the time, but you can please most of the people, most of the time. That’s just life. Learning to shrug off occasional rejection in any area of life is part of being a fully-formed human being.

Yes, and I got over it. The post above is excellent wisdom.

Yes. Your best weapon here is knowledge. You, with a huge partner count, know full well you’re a good lay and your complaint record. Which is what, 2/200? Obviously groundless in my opinion.

That combined with the fact that vindictive women are generally hiding inadequacy and insecurity about themselves by tearing you down is the main thing to remember.

Hahaha, guys believe me when I say this but this is a too obvious troll.

Never had one say anything negative but I did have one girl I dated who talked about her ex boyfriends dick on more then one occasion. She said he was 9”+ etc which made me feel like she was missing it lol. She would phrase it like it had been a problem but I wasn’t buying it. At barely over 6” I wasn’t close to competing with it so moved on. The next girl was a big boost though because she was much hotter and for some reason would always comment on how much she loved how my dick looked and that it had the perfect upward curve or stuff like that. The rest haven’t had much to say good or bad.

No troll! I’m serious on this one.

I would have just asked her if she had any pictures of it and suggested we look at them before we screw next time.. Lol

I’ve never had any negative comments on my unit. Even when I was your size of 5.2”. But then again, I’ve not had that many partners. Only two. Hopefully that will change in future. But one thing I can comment on is the swagger you talk about. I’m close to 9 inches (unofficially, officially I can only say over 8) and my confidence shot through the roof. Some guys on here have said that its almost as if women just know you have a big dick, but I would say its more the confidence that tell them that indeed, you are hung.

Of my 2200+ partners only 10 or so ridiculed me while viciously foaming at the mouth. I just shrugged and said “look babe …2190+ dance partners like my salsa, ill take my talents elsewhere”

I have those types of issues everytime, being Asian living in Brazil the most common comment I hear is about how Asians have tiny dick.

To be honest I think most Asians are probably average, I was average too according to all penis size studies, but maybe one thing that always bothered me was my flaccid hang, used to be very small.

But that was mostly from friends, the girls I had sex with never complained, although they were less than 10.

I’m still waiting for them to call me names like Tripod…few more inches to go I guess. lol

Here’s a funny scene from Curb Your Enthusiasm that can help put some things into perspective about small penises….

Big Vagina

I don’t see why you think he’s trolling, sounds right to me.

Hahahaha!