Anorgasmia from stretching?

I’ve got some questions related to some anorgasmia I’ve experienced during sex over the last several weeks. I know well what this was like when I was acting out heavily as a sex addict and relations with the wife just couldn’t compete (I’d drill her forever but my neural wiring was too whacked to induce the grand finale). This however is different as I’m no longer acting out (for the most part) and I’m thrilled that my dick’s gotten bigger, excited that my wife’s enjoying sex more (but doesn’t know why as she doesn’t know I’m PE-ing) and trying all the Jedi mind tricks I know to think about none of the above while having sex and trying to just be in the moment with her.

Granted, it could be in my head - there’s lotsa, lotsa monkeys up there, so there’s that. But I’ve been contemplating what PE is doing to my cock as presumably microtraumas are repeatedly inflicted upon it. There’s stuff going on with my tunica and ligs sure, but what about all of the interconnected tissues of the penis, such as nerve tissue.

For instance, I still haven’t figured out (and would appreciate any feedback on) the stretch marks that many newbies seem to acquire, myself included. Whether this is the body’s response to an increase in penile volume or more a response to the fact that over the course of many jelqs and stretches, I’m stretching the hell out of my skin (as is my often present golf weight). If it’s due to stretching to the point of generation of new skin, then how about the generation of the nerves that are embedded right in that skin? Since nerves don’t grow terribly fast (and certainly not as fast as new skin), you gotta wonder what happens to nerve innervation of tissues that grow in a way that isn’t exactly what nature ever had in mind.

What I’m getting at is, there’s been much discussion about avoiding nerve damage to the dorsal bundle from compression due to jelqing that would hit the top of one’s shaft with too much pressure, but what about nerve transmission impairment from the trauma/growth process itself?

The American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons says, “The time a damaged nerve takes to heal depends on numerous factors, including the type of nerve and whether surgery is performed to repair the nerve. Once a repair is made, the damage begins to heal within three to four weeks of the initial injury.”

So if you follow that timeline, let’s say the trauma I’ve inflicted has impaired the function of some nerves that used to communicate quite well on the underside of my glans for instance (from being repeatedly stretched to kingdom come and back). Would folks that can speak from experience agree that we’re talking weeks for the damage to begin to heal (if you caught their exact language, although the causal agent is surgery, the body BEGINS to heal in 3 weeks after it’s noticed the break off of nerve signal and tells nerves to get ready to grow into an area)?

To summarize:

1) Can penis tissue growth provoked by microtraumas themselves (which in my mind means minute tears not only to fascia, muscle, vessels, etc. but nerve pathways as well), impair nerve transmissions as microtraumas inevitably occasionally cause gaps between embedded nerve cells that haven’t had time to regrow like the rest of the tissue has?

2) Has anyone experienced a partial loss of sensativity which has caused anorgasmia and did your unit’s sensation eventually fully return?

Not all at once now!

QL

Quantum Leap, I’m not sure this will answer your question but here goes

I have suffered anorgasmia or, as it was once called, permanent erection, for thirty long years and its not to be recommended, I have had various medical and psychological consultations the upshot of this is that 99% of all anorgasmia is psychological and any treatment is aimed at repairing damaged Psyche.

So my advice to you would be,

First, don’t feel guilty about trying to improve yourself, feel your bigger erection and enjoy it,

Second, take your time, both with P.E. And lovemaking “get onto the zone and let the excitement build”

And finally,

Third, forget you have a problem, you don’t, thinking you have a problem is the biggest part of the problem.

That’s interesting and makes plenty of sense because after scanning more posts on nerve issues on TP, there’s always numbness or tingling in the unit neither of which I’ve had.

I appreciate your three points - solid advice that helped me step back and evaluate what I was missing - will take them to heart and see what happens in this area.

But I’m still curious about how nerves grow within our expanding tissues - they must do so (and quite well) or no one in their right mind would be continuing PE long-term.

Thanks Uncle.nasty,

QL

Took some sage advice to heart, put my monkeys back in their zoo and glad to report my climaxing difficulties have resolved having had nothing to do with nerve issues. And all’s well in the world.

QL