An unusual question
Ok, so it’s probably not unusual for this forum at all, but a little odd for me to ask. But anywayyyyy, I’ve never been the one to ever think I would have a problem getting a full erection. I always get wood even when I don’t want it and with my old g/f of 5 years I was always ready to go. So I just started dating this new girl, but I knew her from HS and actually dated her kind of in 10th grade so were very comfortable with each other and have known her for over 8 years and good friends with her for most of the time. She’s a little intimidating looking and looks unapproachable but is very nice so I’m not actually intimidated at all. My ex was smoking hot too (I guess I just get lucky) but anyway even when I hold her hand I’m hard half the time I’m making out and everything. When I started to get real frisky with her and get on top and about to stick it in it’s like my dick was afraid. Very weird. It’s almost like I can’t get it back up all and that is very not like me. So I kinda just flip back over and keep fooling around, but it just seems like I’m a weirdo or something or don’t wanna actually have sex with her. Eventually I get wood again.
What the hell do you think is wrong with me? Obviously it’s somewhat psychological I guess, but I don’t understand why. I never had sex with her when I was dating her back when I was young either so I guess you can see I’m somewhat nervous, but not all that nervous. My ex g/f was probably aesthetically out of my league also, but I had no problems at all with that either. I’m in very good shape and USED TO work out on a daily basis. Now I’m overtired from my work schedule (working overnights) so I’m sure that might come into play as I just switched and I’m still adjusting. I also have a horrible diet with all microwavable and fast food all the time, but somehow I remain in decent shape. So besides my crappy diet and my new acquired sleeping schedule I’m sure that might come into play, but it’s just weird that I’m always hard around her. We cuddle a lot and I’m hard the whole time and then fool around for a while and I’m probably hard for an hour straight at least sometimes. Do you guys think that could be a reason, that I’m just hard for such a long time already before I go to actually have sex? Anyway, now it’s REALLY psychological cause when I’m making out with her that’s all I can think about. I’m only 25 years old so I know it’s not that I’m old or anything.
I just picked up yohimbe bark extract too and I’m gonna start taking that just to see if that has anything to do with it.
Sorry for the long overdrawn post. I’ve never actually PE’ed consistently and never really post, just a long time lurker. I had the yohimbe just so I can last a little longer, cause I’m not an hour long guy, I usually go within the first 15 minutes and I’m also obviously a little shy about my dick size that’s of course why I found this site so I’m sure that comes into play with everything psychologically. What do you recommend me doing PE wise or even psychologically wise for this. I mean I never even kegel’ed or jelqed cause I’m afraid I’m going jelq wrong or whatever. But I guess I can start with kegeling cause I have time for that and no one will even know that I’m doing it, but I never really have time for a full PE thing, but I’m going to try it now.
When I’m hard all the time I guess I’m not rock hard and could have a stronger erection, so besides gaining size I wish to obtain that also. So I have frequent erections, but it can probably get stronger.
Anyone have any recommendations or suggestions? I guess ill read the newbie program, but will probably have a lot of questions. Thanks in advance for any help you guys can offer. Again, sorry for the long withdrawn story.