Am I crazy?

I agree, Drako93. I tend to get to know girls before we do things. Like I don’t choose the girls that everyone expects to have all kinds of partners. I try to determine if the girl is slutty or not to see maybe if less experience means less judgment. I like the girls to at least like me as a person first. I have had maybe three one night stands, and none of them turned out well because of my nervousness. Although I will say they occurred before my aforementioned growth spurt after high school. The last girl I had sex with was the girl with all the black guy experience. And as much confidence I have in myself now, I still found myself nervous, and not able to get all the way up. Thank God she was one of the understanding ones, and she helped me out a little bit. After the first three rounds (like I said, nympho), my nervousness was gone. Now I get a boner by just looking at her. Its like I have to break that ice, then after, all is well. That’s maybe why I abhor one night stands. Its not in me. I have to be comfortable

No your not crazy. Many of us would not only have more dominant rods, but to be.among the very best if not the best in the sack. Im even incorporating dress game, massage game, mind game, vocals game, tight body game, on point game into the arsenal. There are a lot of facets to attraction. So its alot more to it than a large cock.

Thats crazy about the girl who said your average. She may have been telling the truth but she may have been liying to deflate your esteem especially if she saw other big.ones.

If you are going to embark on PE, you should take beginning pics with a measuring device in the pic. You will be happy you did later when you’ve gained.

Make sure you get good beginning measurements, you should be able to get a tailors tape at Walmart or, use a string to measure girth and then measure the string.

Good luck

-GG

DjRobins- yea I know, what you mean as far as the attraction goes. I’m fairly attractive, slightly chubby but I’m about 6’2” 240, so I have this sort. Of presence about me. Like in high school I played football and I was the man, so I’m used to feeling confident. Its just that when you get to the real world, and penis size matters, it changes things. Lol Plus a female might judge overconfidence as me having a huge wang. But like I said, its big enough. Its just the outside factors (girls’ partners) and culture that might take a little of a mans confidence.

Like, if a woman was to be downright dissatisfied with our sex, I would believe something is wrong with her, or she’s been having sex with a walrus. Like I believe I’m good in the sense of the word, but I want my performance to be unquestioned. I feel that a little more girth and maybe and inch in length will make me feel untouchable. Lol even though I know there are still bigger ones, that would be my comfort zone.

Thats a great take on it ^

Woman test men boasting too much if they can stand behind it or if it is hot air.
Its not really about the dicksize but how you relate to it. Of course some are just about the size like some men will only take DD.
Woman put down men that are big to decrease their confidence to a) put themselves higher or b) decrease your confidence around other woman to increase chances keeping you.

Most woman will choose a confident average dicked men over a non confident above average men.

That said a confident men with a good sized dick and money in the bank and a pletora of other traits is the jackpot.
Luckily no one scores on every count on this planet ;)

You can be the best lover with the big cock you now possess. And you should fosus on this. How things go around here youll end up 9+ inches bpel and 5.5” on the girth. It may take two years. However working on other parts of your image will yield greater rewards. If you want the larger cock thunders will guide you to it.

Dickerschwanz- I like your point. So, like even if she thinks its a pretty good size, she will tell me she’s seen bigger, just not to overinflate my already big ego? Maybe thats what your saying or maybe thats how I interpret it.

But its more like the thinking about the guy she cheated with and stuff. That kinda thing gets me. But with the hispanic chick, for example, I had heard about some of her experiences before we ever met. We were just talking for like 3 months, getting to know each other. And she likes black guys my stature, like football guys or whatever. So I’m hearing all these crazy, in-detail stories, and I’m getting a little apprehensive but I’m still confident nonetheless. So when we met the first time, we really hit it off; like really. Lol and she went down on me with no problem, then I got a little nervous before going in, but she got me back up. And I mean, 2 hours and 7 sessions later its like so, how was it. And she said it was great. Mind you, I know when a girl cums, and she did. Its just that I’ve known times where she has told me about how she’s gotten plowed by this guy or one guy did that or whatever.

So basically its like even though a girl enjoys my sex, I can’t help but wondering about other times that she may have had better sex. Which leads my to say, if a change a little something (no pun intended), maybe I won’t get that feeling. I hope. But hey, I think I am a little delusional. Its like saying I’m broke, but kids in ethiopa are like, are you crazy? So I guess its eye of the beholder. Which is me I presume. Because the only person telling me to change is me.

Oh and adding to that, she has told me of stories where the guy was super hung, and like her mouth was watering. Lol but then he got in there and didnt know what to do. She said she just looked up at him while he was there, he was thinking he was doing something, but he was just getting himself off. Yea it was huge, but the sex was horrible. Like be careful what you wish for-type of stuff.

I feel you man. And its crazy because I asked my fiancee jokinlgy, and she told me “length? Nah I’m ok. It hurts when you go too far!” She said on a scale from one to ten, ten being unbearable, if my girth is a 6, she wouldn’t want me to go past a 7. I told her that I was asking just in case there were exercises I could do😁. And she laughed! So in about a year when I’m hanging down more and thicker, I’ll just say happy anniversary. Lol

I also have bad night stands sometimes. I get either vert hard and I finish in 5 minuts or I get soft and i never finnish. pretty fistrating, usually it happens when the girl is hot, Lol everything is in our head and drinking a little and knwoign the girls is into your personality and conversation i guess it helps….

to your “weird” growth, couldnt it be that your measuremnts weren’t accurate in the past man? This is so weird to be honest.

About blacks stereotypes… I have never met an athletic black guy (met many as I plyes basketball for like 12 years) who wasn’t at least over average, and most of them were big and several huge. Could be coincidence.

It was more like I knew my johnson was smaller back then. Its hard to explain, I felt like I wasn’t filling it up enough. Like doggystyle when you look down its whoa. Now its like I’m in there. Lol like I said I jack off a lot even though I get my fair share of sex. Its not like my vision got better. For example, I couldn’t catch friction on a toilet paper roll when I was 20. Now I can’t fit. I’m 27 now.

PS Where can I post a couple pics?

So, I put up my starting pics in the progress and pics section. Give me you guys’ opinion. Be nice.

7” EG is definitely thick LOL. She seems to be a nice girl.

Mind plays a fundamental role in this kind of things, expecially getting comfortable.

Lol. High school sweetheart. But the 1-10 thing wasn’t based on inches. As I’m not 6 inches. It was like if a ‘10’ is too thick and I’m a ‘6’, if I were to add girth what would be the highest I should go without hurting her. She said no more than a ‘7’. That type of thing. Her pain threshold is kinda low too. When we started having sex in high school it used to hurt her a little, and as I stated earlier, I was at least an inch and a half shorter, and less thick. I guess as we got older my dick grew over time as she got accustomed to my old johnson, or something.lol

Yeah, I know. A 10” EG naturally doesn’t exist, over pumped ones yes but spongy which is useless.