Always too hard

I can’t seem to not be hard when I jelq. Would it be worth masturbating first before doing PE to keep me to being to hard. Because after a few minutes of PE I become hard and I can’t proceed until it goes down abit.

Also I don’t think I’m jelqing properly. I’ve watched videos and don’t think I am feeling it properly. Is the head of the penis suppose to get rock hard with each stroke of a jelq?

It’s normal To get hard as you’re stimulating the penis quite a bit and the harder the head the better, but don’t go too far on how hard you grip cause you could hurt yourself

A good way for me to keep my erection level low, is to count the reps while watching the time, calculating the average stroke time related to length of workout, concentrating on technique, or basically anything that is an erection killer. The more things you have going on in your head, the better. :)

When I first started I would ejacalate first. I quickly learned the sensations and didn’t have to worry about becoming erect. For me it was part of the learning curve. I learned the difference between play time and routine time.

As soon as you teach your body how to establish and maintain the correct erection level, at every jelq you should feel the blood being pushed in towards the glans. At the end of the session, you will notice a “heavier” penis.