Accepting there are bigger guys than you!?

I find it very difficult accepting, and being ok with, the fact that there are guys that are bigger than me. I mean, I have no problem that there are guys on this forum that live on the other side of the world that have huge penises, because our paths will probably never cross IRL. But when there are people that I know IRL that are more hung than me, I feel really uncomfortable. I wish I could just be fine with it, and maybe even be happy for them, but I’m not. I feel threatened and challenged, and almost get a little bit hostile against this person.
I think that the fact that my penis is above average(7”NBPEL/5.3EG), I.E. not small, but not BIG either also contributes to this behavior. I think guys who know for a fact that they are small have an easier time just accepting that, and moving on.

Anyone who has any advice on how I can change this way of thinking, or that have similar issues?

There will always be some one bigger. It’s a fact of life. I’ve learned to get over it by enjoying what I do have instead of focusing on what I don’t.

7” NBPEL? Thats pretty big and even more so depending on your BPEL. Do a search on penis size and you’ll find the other guys should be worrying about you. Once you get the confidenence that you’re pretty big AND are cool with other guys being bigger, you’ll be alright. One way is to read and make posts on this forum. It may take awhile but in the end it should get your thinking straight.

Just know that for every guy you get jealous about, there’s 500 guys waiting in line behind you to have your size.

Seriously.

Confidence is more attractive to women than a porn sized dick. If you have a big dick and are still insecure about it, work it out. The second a woman catches the slightest hint of size anxiety on a hung guy, you drop hugely in how attractive she is going to find you.

You know a lot of guys in China who are bigger than 7 x 5.3?

I know lots of guys in bodybuilding gyms that hate anyone being bigger than them. That’s why some guys do silly amounts of ‘roids. But most girls I know like a toned muscular guy, not a steroid freak. 7 x 5.3? That’s a ‘toned muscular penis’. Most women are going to be very, very happy with it!

Sorry, I can’t relate. My goal length is half an inch smaller than your current.

I take that back, your current NBPEL is half an inch more than my BPEL goal!

I think I’m in the same boat as you. I’m large average, especially with my PE progress, which is large enough to be close to the limit where people don’t consider you “average” aka small but not large enough to be above that threshold. So, since I don’t play the internet inches game I’m “just” 6-something inches. Granted you are non-pressed and mine is bone pressed, but still. I think if I was something more like 5” or 4.5” then I’d be small and be able to live with it. Instead we are sort of in this gray area. It’s like being in the upper 10% tax bracket. You have to hobnob with enough 1%ers that you feel like shit being “just” a 10%er meanwhile you actually are doing quite well. If you were down near the actual average or below you don’t have not being in the upper echelons rubbed in your face daily.

That’s a good way of putting it. I used to chauffeur some guys who were multi-millionaires, and they were SO uncomfortable around billionaires. I could just about pay my bills, and I didn’t give a toss how rich the guys were. :)

So just to clarify, you guys are saying that guys with smaller penises have it easier because almost everyone is bigger than them?

Wow. If cock transplants are possible, I’ll carry that burden of a 7” NBPEL from you any day :)

From a lot of the things of read your unit is exactly the right length/girth that most woman would want in a guy. Not too long or too thick to hurt them. And I don’t mean that as a put down by any means. You are definately big, and I would love to some day have my unit as big as yours. In other words I guess what I’m trying to say is that most guys any bigger than you would probably be uncomfortable for a lot of women.

..said the guy with the biggest cock of china…lol

I have no problem with it.