About My Girlfriend

That is the last thing on God’s green earth you want to do.Because what happens if she really likes it then she’s going to either want you to be bigger thus causing insecurities or she’ll end up cheating on you.Be glad you are the only one and that so far she hasn’t any interest to try anyone bigger then you are because once that happens then you are setting yourself up for some damn big(no pun intended)problems down the road.

Most of the girls I’ve been with are extremely sensitive right at the vaginal opening.

So if you are fucking her, pull almost all the way out and just push in a hair then back out a hair. Keep on doing this and you will see that size probably does not matter to most women if you know how to use your dick,… and tongue,… and fingers, and fist, and toes and ballsack.

I think you got the standard answer. Your girl friend does not want to give you too much power, but does not want to discourage you either.

Just about every girl answers just like you said your did, regardless of the guys dick size. Read the other posts like yours.

After studying this for a few years, here’s my own personal conclusion:

Tiny is not so good—so use tongue and fingers instead alot. That’ll work great.

Average is good. 6 inches or so, that is. But, you better learn how to use it well. I’m speaking from experience, here, when I was smaller than I am now. Kegels and PE will help give you the stamina for the time you need to stimulate her to orgasm. 3 minutes penetration is no good if you are average. Actually, it’s not good for any size you might be.

Big, say, 7 to 8.5, and thick is much more exciting and stimulating than average size for most women, all other skills and things like romance/attractivesness being equal. This is the zone where they get very vocal and lose track of time during sex. In other words, it’s really great if you know how to use your “big”. UNLESS she has a pain issue with sex. Uterine cysts, diseased ovaries, endometriosis, pre-cancer, adhesions, and strange things yet to be identified, etc. are more common than you can believe. Look at the number of women with hysterectamies. If is the case, even average size will cause her pain at times. She will likely need to visit a doctor. She won’t want to, but encourage her to, and follow through with the diagnosis, for her sake.

Basically, what I’m saying is get big if you can, get skilled as well, and make sure there are no reproductive diseases that she is dealing with. Get your ducks in a row, and she will be screaming for more.

Oh, and brush your teeth, take a shower, dress great, bring her something like flowers, and look lovingly straight in her eyes once in awhile, so she knows you are for real.

Great post! I read it twice.

It is all about technique anyway. If you develop a 9” x 6” penis and it is a floppy piece of rubber and cant stay hard your girlfriend will probably be very frustrated. If you are 6” x 5” and have rock hard erections and can bang her all night into nirvana then she will be much happier. Put your fears where they belong out of your mind. You are worrying about nothing.

I concur with some of the posts so far, you’re probably on a higher plane mentally with your girlfriend, she may feel infinitely more comfortable with you than any other she’s been with. It was a shopping around process and she found the right one, which isn’t the biggest or the smallest.

I’m still searching for Ms. Right, they come and go, some let me out of the relationship, others I set free. The other day I met a Columbian woman, she was pretty hot. Happy with my unit, but made it a point to ask me if I was rich. Talk about the equivalent of “farting in church”. That question stuck in my mind more than the compliment. I guess her English was poor, but she really didn’t tactfully approach conversation, we just had very little in common and it was exacerbated by not being able to communicate in a common language. Needless to say, that relationship never really got off the ground, we got together for an afternoon, but she’s nothing that I’ll ever marry or wind up with as a life partner. If she wants to be friends, that’s ok too, maybe the networking might produce a more compatible match. I just think the learning curve is way too much to overcome in this one.

Thanks guys I feel a bit better now,

I’m going to just tell her I’m doing PE for my own self confidence.

So true !