A final call for help...

Guys,

I posted about a year ago on my injury sustained as a result of PE. Still suffering from weak erections and problems urinating plus sometimes pain during sex in the head of my penis.

I am a disastrous 4.25EG and have real problems getting over this. I am only 20 and want to recommence PE but am willing to let the body heal - after all, it still works down there. Girlfriend of 2 years blurted out when drunk that she wasnt satisfied with me, which has put me into a real bad state. Still together but that’s all I think about these days.

So, point of this post is
- what should I do
- is it possible that my body will heal itself over a long period
- anyone with similar injury experience in terms of length of time?

Please please please give me some feedback as I am on the verge of giving up completely and not having sex again (no exaggeration).

Cheers,

Tom

Thomas, first of all, you shouldn’t´t allow anyone, I mean ANYONE to fuck with your mind, if your girlfriend told you, you should have made a stand right there on the spot, those type of comments can really REALLY fuck your mind BIG time, so as the first step, do NOT allow anyone to put you in that state of mind NEVER again.

Secondly, in this forum I have seen a lot of users who started with 4.3”-4.5” EG and now are on 6” or 5.6” EG. So, it is entirely possible to change your current situation with exercise and dedication, you just need to focus, and train.

Finally, I really don´t know about injuries or treatment, but I tried to help with the first two parts: 1) Don´t ever allow anyone to fuck with your mind and 2) Just train and you will increase your girth.

You said in your original injury post that you got this injury doing erect jelks, saw a uro, who was mystified, but give it rest and then come back to see him. Did you go back to see him?

Hey Thomas, I’m sorry to hear you are still suffering . It is taking an abnormally long time to heal. Have you seen a doctor about it, It has been a long time so it seems a medical opinion might throw some light on it.

I can only guess but having pain in your glans possibly indicates a bump or scar there - or even a foreign body. Have you tried rolling the soft glans in between your fingers to see if you can feel anything unusual?

If your doctor can’t help; It might be worth going to an STD clinic and asking them if they can determine anything. - particularly so if you can feel anything abnormal .. Just say you it happend when you were having sex wih your girl and she got a bit over-excited, and you are worried about it.

Hope that helps.

God bless you and allow your mind to open and allow for gains in pe.

Avantasia - cheers man I’ll try not let it get to me.

I did go back and see the urologist and he said that it might be a burst blood vessel. 8 months on I highly doubt that! Yes my jelqs were done in too erect a state given my experience. The pain is pretty minor to be honest but I don’t want to go back to PE unless 100%.

Oh, and another symptom. Try going to sit down on the toilet and pee, then half way through stand up and kegel then start to pee normally standing up. Quite a simple procedure, but one that I am unable to do as urine keeps flowing as I go to stand. It’s as if my kegels have been weakened somehow - almost like my penis is not fully attached?

Petitfaun- definitely not an STD nor is there anything unusual at my glans. However in the early stages of my injury it was very sore to touch.

Any suggestions/motivation? Thanks guys I appreciate it a lot

Why dont you see a urologist again? or maybe a doctor who could give you a general perspective of your penis health.

I agree with what avantasia said. Your girlfriend should be supporting you not making it worse. What would she do if you had a serious medical problem? Stand with you or run away?

Also, 4.25 girth is not disastrous. Just wondering if you have any tug as in LOT when you kegel?

As for suggestions, I would try very gentle warm water pumping just to keep blood flow going. Maybe there’s some psychological fear left over from the initial injury which is affecting you. Seeing an erection in the pump might make you feel more confident. I think very gentle water pumping is very safe and helpful for EQ. Obviously be very gentle. Not going for gains but just blood flow to help healing.

Thomas, all your previous posts lead me to think that the injury may be in your urethra. Please go to a different urologist and have it examined. Make sure you mention to him you have a problem stopping your stream of urine as well.

Hi Thomas

I had a long injury, I’m still in the recovery stage actually. But things are slowly getting back to normal, it’s almost it.
Here is my storry: Injury with jelqs

First, don’t even think about doing PE, and try to avoid masturbation. These things would make the recovery even longer.

What exactly did you did?

What really helped me is a hot/cold treatment, and some EVO oil:
Eroset’s Vein Oil - for thrombosis and more

God bless this EVO thing, without it, I’m sure I still wouldn’t be able to achieve a 60% erection right now, and my cock would still be totally red because of all the little veins.

Also, stay positive!

My ex gf fucked with my mind too. I saw a chat with her friends making fun of my dick being small, then she made some other comment at it the night I lost my cool on her and broke up with her.

Really felt like she did it on purpose to bring me down, for things I did wrong with her. Really a mess of a situation, especially considering all the other factors involved.

Avantasia you have some very positive things to say, and very accurate things. Thanks for sharing, it is a boost of encouragement. I am 25 and a little over 4” EG and really want to get to 5” to feel better.

Hang in there man, I know its rough.

Thank you, just continue with the PE and you will achieve your goals :) .