Who said 1 in 100 was 8 x 6? Where are you getting that statistic from? Probably more like 1 in 500. (Priapologist had a good thread)
As for my comment, it was satire on the notion that having a big dick is such a strong factor in getting you laid. I’ve been 8” in length since I was a senior in high school and have never gotten any action from size queens. I think it has more to do with the fact that everyone who isn’t “large” thinks the larger guys are always out getting laid by everyone, which I wish was the case.
From experience I think penis size is a moot issue, unless it’s way on the end of either spectrum.
I didn’t come up with the 1 in 100. That was thrown around here in this thread long before my post. You are probably right that it is more like 1 in 500 but I don’t think that is the point I’m trying to make. I have no idea of your sexual history. My experience isn’t like I’m a big player or anything but I’ve been with around 40 women. About 10 of them have been strippers or have done something in the adult entertainment business. Of those 10, I would say size was important and discussed by 8 of them. Of the other 30 I would say half openly preferred men over 6” to those under 6”.
I think it’s very easy for a guy who is 8” in length to scoff at someone who is 5.5” in length and say that it doesn’t matter. It’s like a guy who is 6’4” tall saying to a guy who is 5’4” tall that height doesn’t matter and he is going to be just as desirable to women. As I’ve also said in my post the guy I know getting action because of size probably isn’t a 1 in 500 statistic but probably 1 in 2500 or so. And no disrespect intended but I also know nothing about your appearance otherwise, your conversational style, what kind of car you drive, your profession, etc. Obviously a 6’5” handsome doctor with a $3 million home and awesome personality with a 6” dick is going to do better than a 8” dick 5’4” tall guy with no teeth and a minimum wage job. there are many factors at play here.
Also, I’ve said in other parts of this thread; if you don’t want to date women that are strippers, into threesomes, are swingers, porn stars, etc. then size is far less important. The population of women I knew right of highschool and just average everyday girls care far less. Once I started getting around women who were more into sex and the sex business size became a bigger issue. I’m not insecure about my size but I’m also realistic about what women talk about and what they prefer. I’ve had plenty of women that enjoy having sex with me. I’ve also had these same women pass me over on any given night for a guy that was larger. I’ve also had women come back to me because I’m better in bed than a guy who is 8+”. There is sometimes a reverse psychology it seems with a few of the women I’ve been with that the large guys are not as skilled because they haven’t had to be. Just a week ago I had a women tell me she was with a guy that was like 9” (probably was 7” as we know how women are) but that he was horrible in bed. Yet she made the comment ‘at least he had a nice dick because I was able to get on top of him and do what I needed.
Again I will point out that if size was not a factor then it would have no place in porn. You would see guys with 5” dicks with the same frequency as 7” dicks. Penis size would not be an issue. The fact the porn industry is almost undeniably made up of guys with larger dicks means it’s not really a moot issue as you put it.
Started Nov2008: EL 5.5", EG 4.5"
Dec 20th: EL 5.75", EG 4.9"