4.5 inch Girth - Will I be able to Satisfy a Woman
At 6 inches BPEL x 4.5 girth my dick is obviously fairly pathetic, well at least the girth anyway.
I’ve been doing newbie routine on and off for 7 months now and seen no improvement whatsoever. Before you shoot me down, I realise consistency is key but due to my living arrangements its extremely difficult to exercise everyday. I try to keep it as regular as possible and was hoping to have seen some minor gains by now. My penis doesn’t even hang well directly after exercise. I have watched video tutorials on the site and spent more time than I care to admit to myself reading info this website. The point being I’m pretty sure I’m performing the exercises correctly.
My insecurity about my size started when I was 13, I’m now 19. There was not a major traumatic incident that occurred, it was simply overhearing girls, seeing other guys in locker rooms at high school, and reading a plethora of info on internet about size, mostly on women’s forums.
I did this research on internet to reassure myself and find the answers I wanted to hear but in fact did the complete opposite.
I think a lot of the negative feelings about my unit stem from being a significant grower. The flaccid state is essentially what you see every time you have a piss and walk around with in day to day life, and when theres not much there, its difficult to feel good about yourself and confident around girls. For me anyway.
The insecurity has progressively got slowly but surely worse over the years to the point now that suicide is a comforting thought. I’m not actually suicidal so don’t freak out but I wake up most days half hoping I will be hit by a bus, so not exactly in a good place.
I was actually a pretty confident kid with lots of attention from girls but my confidence has slowly decreased to the point I really hate myself now, just because of my size. I suppose I’m very angry about all the things its stopped me doing. Some examples being, playing sports ( I use to play soccer for team), going on beach holidays with friends, going to the gym. I have developed severe pee shyness making it very difficult for me to use public restrooms let alone urinals, so consequently stopped me drinking socially in bars and clubs.
Worst of all stopped me from having any girlfriends, flings, nothing.
I did have an opportunity with a girl. Everything was going ok but then when it came to actually having sex, I couldn’t get an erection. This is something I’ve never ever experienced before and I’m sure its totally psychological. I’m sure this happened due to the intense anxiety I have of anyone even seeing my unit, this was the first time a girl had even seen it and was clearly enough of a shock to my system, without having to perform as well.
If you’ve read the above I think I can safely say the next thing without coming across as arrogant. I’m a very good looking, intelligent, witty guy. I even use to have a pretty good sense of humour before I felt like this. This makes it worse as I have constant opportunities with really hot girls, provocative smiles and inviting looks even from women I pass in the mall. But of course whilst not only being afraid of how my size will go down, I’m questioning whether I would be able to get it up. Maybe a one night stand is simply FAR to much pressure giving my current state of mind.
The real question is to other guys that started at 4.5 girth or somewhere close, and to how this went down with the ladies?
Everything I read on women’s forums, the internet, overhearing girls talking, only justify my fears further with CONSTANT emphasis on importance of girth. Nearly every thread on this website itself, brings up how much more important girth is than length and how much the ladies love it. The science also agrees, more nerve endings being touched so more pleasure. Girth, girth, girth. So I guess I’m pretty fucked at 4.5 girth?
It would be great to hear from other guys with similar dimensions as the thought of getting a girlfriend and everyone finding out about my size would be the end of me.
And we all know how much girls talk about that to each other. I have witnessed many of these conversations myself. It seems some girls actually like talking about this around guys,
E.g ’ he’s sooooooo hung’ with dreamy eyes.
Followed by a glance at you. Maybe its a sort of test to gauge the males reaction and find out his size.
I apologise for the sob story but you can’t exactly talk to anyone about this sort of thing. I feel like I’m mentally falling apart and thunders seems a very supportive community.
- Please don’t honey coat the truth. I want to hear it as it is.
- Tell me ‘a girl can get off with just her finger and that my dick is bigger than a finger’. Its a different sensation to being fucked, sometimes they just want to be filled up. Finger also can exert more direct pressure than a penis so I don’t see it as a fair comparison.
(To moderators - I know I’ve posted a similar thread to this before but I want more advice, so please don’t delete)
Last edited by VeinGain : 10-28-2012 at .