Originally Posted by richipeque
39 Y/O
“Married” twice, and other girlfriends in my life, so I have experience :)
But my point is, a small penis guy ALWAYS have the anxiety when he gonna have sex. “If the girl say to me: YOU HAVE A SMALL PENIS”..
A regular guy can’t understand this :) That fear, ONLY can understood by guys like me :)
Actually, some of us may understand more than you realize. People often forget that what you BELIEVE to true, is your reality. So even if you are not ‘small’ whatever that means to a given person, if you believe you are, then that unsettling feeling, that nervousness with women is still going to be felt. By making your thoughts and possible experiences exclusive, you’re only creating a false separation and reality.. In this case, one that ONLY YOU can understand. This is, however, a false assumption. Even a man of ‘normal’ size, if he believes he is inferior in some way, will experience feelings of fear and anxiety - just like you do.
While there is a side to be that wonders what a woman might think, I understand that people have different preferences. This might be hard to believe, but there are women who prefer ‘below average’ sized men. By comparison, Women think that ALL MEN want them to have big breasts.. Again, false. I hate big breasts. At a certain point, it’s like “what am I supposed to do with these?” That point being when she’s on top and bouncing around in a way that causes an unflattering image. For me, slightly above a handful is the max amount necessary and as long as there is at least something there to handle, I’m perfectly fine with them. So, as you can see, there is a comparison that evens out the game. While a woman thinking you’re small and telling you would suck, realize that it’s only your ego that’s taking the force of the blow, no pun intended. If she makes a big enough deal about it that she doesn’t want to be intimate with you, then she’s probably someone you wouldn’t want in your life to begin with; she’s super shallow!
