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25 year old lasting 30 seconds

Hi

I am in desperate need of advice but can’t afford doctor. I am 25, virgin but used to jerk off 4 times a day since 16 yr old until now. I didn’t not jerk off for almost 2 weeks and I shot off in 30 seconds with a load more then ever. I been lasting only 30 seconds since age 18 and now I might get married soon in few years. If I don’t do anything about my situation my wife will probably end up leaving me. HELP please.

When you jerk off four times a day, do you last any longer on the fourth time than on the first?


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Damn. 30 seconds, you may well be the fastest gun in the west. :leftie: There is quite a difference between fucking and self service. The problem is the hand is quicker than the eye, because your dick has been trained to respond quickly to your hand. Once deep inside a real live pussy your dick will sense unknown territory, and most likely respond a bit slower. In fact some guys even have a bit of trouble making that transition at first, to the point orgasms can come slowly and even with some difficulty. But these things have a way of working themselves out. Your girl, if she is also a virgin, may have similar obstacles to overcome. Overcoming them together is part of the fun of being newly weds. Relax and enjoy your youth, you may not have a problem at all.


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After 2 weeks you were just full of spunk that’s all.

Guys the problem is: I am one of those “Nice guys” that women check out all the time but when they hear me talk they want me as friend and not friend with benefits. I wrestled in high school and college once a little bit which should get me mad amount of vagina but my niceness always scared the girls away I guess. I m no Tom Cruse but I am a decent looking guy with athletic bulky body.

I still have to service myself because I just feel awkward treating women like $hit. Anyways now I have this problem and it would be real bad moment if I just get done in 30 seconds with my first girl. I tried Kegels but it didn’t work. Also, I am not even getting hard rock like I used to when I was 16. At 16 I used to measure up to 7 inches but now 5 inch flacid and hard erection happens and I jerk for 30 sec and GAME OVER. :(

Mate it would not be bad at all if the first time you do it you last 30 seconds. Most guys don’t last too long there first time as they’re generally a little nervous. I was drunk out of my mind and still lasted less than 2 minutes the first time I had sex. And the second time actually. And I’ve been dating that same girl for three years. If your a nice guy like you say you are they’d have to be one cold hearted girl to walk out the door because the first time you ever have sex you last 30 seconds.

Chances are they’ll be understanding and the only way your probably going to last longer is by getting some experience. I honestly had the same problem for a long time when I first started having sex. My partner just got used to the fact that generally she’d have to wait for round two.

You’ll be fine, good luck and go get some “mad vagina”


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How long did u try doing kegels?

Not sure how you are doing it, but my best advice might be slow down. When you jerk off, don’t stroke repeatedly. Stroke once and just keep your hand there - take deep breaths and learn to control the urge to spurt.

When you have sex, go in slowly, stay there and stay balls deep. Grind your pelvis on her clit. Keep it in and don’t stroke if you can help it.

You are young. Use this as a reason to grow closer to your girl.


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If you can get no other success, try using teething gel (the stuff for babies/toddlers —- not denture cream) to desensitize your glans, then continue to masturbate, and train yourself to last longer.

Teething gel contains lidocaine — or other topical anesthetic, and will hinder the sensitivity required to orgasm.


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Originally Posted by jamesbondc
Guys the problem is: I am one of those “Nice guys” that women check out all the time but when they hear me talk they want me as friend and not friend with benefits. I wrestled in high school and college once a little bit which should get me mad amount of vagina but my niceness always scared the girls away I guess. I m no Tom Cruse but I am a decent looking guy with athletic bulky body.

I still have to service myself because I just feel awkward treating women like $hit. Anyways now I have this problem and it would be real bad moment if I just get done in 30 seconds with my first girl. I tried Kegels but it didn’t work. Also, I am not even getting hard rock like I used to when I was 16. At 16 I used to measure up to 7 inches but now 5 inch flacid and hard erection happens and I jerk for 30 sec and GAME OVER. :(

You don’t need to be a jerk. I think the problem is within you. Maybe all your energy is put in masturbation. Try to do some celibacy. Raise your confidence. Control yourself. Maybe you have some anxiety disorders. I had some fears years ago, was very shy and sucked with woman. I learned to meditate, I am a deep thinker, I always question values, morals, etc… Just be yourself. Be confident with yourself, love yourself. Think about death everyday. One day you will die, everybody dies. Nobody is better than you. All have the same destination, death and aging. Be confident! “The world within makes the world without”, “As above, as below.” Think about these quotes.

About your issue. The problem is deep in your psyche. Not about kegels, muscle, etc.. Your mind makes you ejaculate faster. You do that just because of the orgasm, the cum, the pleasure. This is a drug addiction. You want it now and fast. Control yourself, be more dominant with you. With will you control your ejaculation. How strong is your will?

How do you make it last that long ?

Originally Posted by jamesbondc
I been lasting only 30 seconds since age 18 and now I might get married soon in few years. HELP please.

EDGING is the ANSWER.

If you can train yourself to last for 30 mins by yourself, you will be able to last as long as you want with a sensitive partner.

It is all about learning about your body and understanding the sensations you have BEFORE you ejaculate.

The training is fun, what do you have to lose?

This is a good thread where Kingpole gives some good instruction:

Edging 101

See my post where I reproduced a “HOW TO EDGE” article from an old website; this is a TOP NOTCH description

sta-kool - Edging 101

Dude, I used to to have trouble with stamina when I started having sex. For some reason, jerking off/hand jobs/blow jobs I had all the control in the world. But as soon as I’d slip it in a girl…splat!

I used to jerk off a lot when I was younger. I read somewhere that a lot of premature ejaculation issues stem from us jeking it when we’re young, afraid of our parents catching us so we get in the habbit of trying to do it as quick as possible. If you jerk it just to jerk it, you’re prob trying to hurry and get to the grand finale. Essentially, you’re training your brain to tell your balls to cum as fast as possible when anything sexual happens.

I had issues up until about 2 months ago when I started edging. DO KEGELS and START EDGING. Only let yourself nut once a week. Soon you will be able to control your ejaculations.

Good luck!

Make a commitment to stop ejaculating for 10+ days. Whenever you masturbate, do it slowly and breathe deeply and slowly, instead of shallowly and rapidly. This will help you stay in control. Take diligent notes on how long you are able to last while masturbating. I suggest you first make a goal of 2 minutes, then 3, then 5, then 8, 10, etc… You need to learn how to stimulate yourself without blanking out and before you know it you’ve busted your load. Instead, stay in control of what is going on. The bottom line is that if you just let it happen, it’s going to happen. You have got to do something real special to retrain yourself. I’d suggest giving up ejaculating altogether and pursuing semen retention which is really a great thing to be involved in, but I don’t expect you to take that advice. Nonetheless, find a balance that works for you and sets you up to have some staying power when you do get laid.

By the way, at age 25 you should have been laid by now. Wrap your junk up and sleep with a slut or something. Go to a party and wear a sign around your neck that reads “Take my virginity”. If you drink a few beers, it should help you last longer. Another thing I always recommend to people who may have anxiety issues and whatnot is to try some pills that help ensure a powerful erection. That’ll take away the pressure to perform well. Other than that, you’ve got to train yourself to last up to an hour and beyond with your penis. Just get dedicated to the goal, and make it happen. Don’t be subjected to what’s going on- Be in charge. That’s all I can say. Good luck!


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