I’m trying to concentrate on gaining length. I’ve read through out the forums that you should jelq at 20-40% erection level to accomplish this. How am I supposed to know when I have a 20-40% erection? Wouldn’t my shaft be too “mushy” at that point to jelq, and if so, how are you supposed to trap the blood and force it towards the glans with a mushy shaft? It doesn’t seem like the jelqing would would work if your penis is so soft.