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2 years to gain Hope for a negative guy

Richard. You are a great man. I have seen many posts of yours on many threads and you are always polite, positive and helpful. I thank you for your kind words as I tha k all of you. I just wished I believed it myself.

She tells me I’m the most selfless person she’s ever met. And I know it sounds egotistical to mention that here in this context. But the truth is, my fear and my insecurities have made me put others first. If I had of been confident would I have become the person I am? I’m not sure.

I guess a small dick is a curse and a blessing.

Thanks again.

I just saw that you’re 5.5 NBPEL, not BPEL, your penis is plenty large enough man. You shouldn’t be ashamed of that at all. You should measure BPEL, I can pretty much guarantee you’re above 6 BPEL.


Best of luck to all fellow PE-ers in their journey.

You can focus on all your shortcomings so much that you could see yourself as unworthy of anybody. You have strong points and possible weak points. The weak points aren’t really weak points until someone else comes along and finds something difficult to deal with or unacceptable about you.

All of these things are truly imaginary. Good enough, not good enough. Too short, too fat, too tall, too skinny, too old, etc. It’s all the nonsense ideas that keep you from feeling like someone would accept you for what you are.

The truth is someone YOU would like WOULD accept you. If they don’t, run away. Or stay in a relationship where someone doesn’t accept you because you like the feeling of someone barely tolerating a piece of crap unworthy loser that you feel you are. Kind of like a parent/child situation. They can abuse you and you love it. Like Stockholm syndrome. That’s the only love some people understand. They suck and someone is willing to keep them around.

Judging by strictly commercial standards, no one should be walking out the front door or seeing anyone. People are imperfect. Commercial standards are not. No one expects commercial perfection because no one is perfect. Not even models and most of them feel they’re imperfect and obsess over their faults. ( See how crazy it all is? )

By the way, your penis is just about fine. I thought it was some freakishly small micropenis situation. That COULD be a problem but I’ll bet you if you had a 2 inch penis, while every girl might not accept it, a lot of girls would. So there’s someone to accept even your worst flaws out there.

Every girl I’ve ever been with had flaws that didn’t bother me much. Some of those girls obsess over their flaws to the point of absurdity and are surprised that anyone could love them or accept them. These are some fine looking, wonderful chicks too. Weird. People have distorted ideas about themselves and want it verified that they’re unlovable or that they ARE lovable. People always look outside themselves for verification and validation that they’re alright. You’re already all right. Your happiness and self acceptance isn’t part of a contest.
Don’t be in a contest. Someone is always going to accept you.

If you love someone and they leave you and you want to figure out what’s ’ wrong ’ with you, maybe you CAN improve or have something to learn. Maybe you don’t need to. The point is, someone else is ALWAYS going to find you acceptable and lovable. Then they might leave you too. Then again maybe they won’t. No guarantees. None of it means that you’re not good enough. Ever.

By the way, the secret to meeting women is to put yourself in a situation where you’re exposed to as many people as possible on a constant basis. You can’t be anti-social and expect much opportunity or much to happen. You have to be constantly in an environment where you’re meeting people for more than a few seconds.

I’m saying this because if you find something about yourself unacceptable, then you have make an effort to meet a lot of women who you find acceptable. Out of 100 women I’ll bet that at least 5 accept you and your shortcomings. You could date five girls at the same time and then pick one. It’s possible.

That’s the real problem we’re talking about here. It’s acceptance and numbers. Accept yourself first and get out there.

Now you can feel good for a moment and then tomorrow forget any of this was said and go back to feeling unacceptable if you want.
Remember ’ No one can make you feel inferior without your consent ‘.


Start: June, 2011 BPEL: 7.4" EG: 4.8"

Current: March 2015 BPEL: 8.1" EG: 5.1"

Goal: BPEL: 8.5" EG: 5.7"

Originally Posted by Richard65
smallblue

You are ready to give a long time in your life to those who are in need. You are a great man then.

You are self-conscious and will get rid of surplus weight and get fit again. Therefore you are a great man!

You are, for a reason, able to attract a stunning woman and the two of you fall in love. You really are a great man!

And you have the balls to tell her you are small in the dick department, which is not really true, but you feel small. Ok, so you were facing your biggest fears and thought she might quit for that reason. Now this is what really can be called a great man.

She wants you and you want her. Now, here and not in 2 years. Because she knows and feels you really are great. Behind every great dick should follow a great man. You already are a great man, and your dick is great too. Maybe not big in your eyes, but great because this stunning lady desires him.

So give her all the love she wants, needs and deserves - and thanks to persistent PE you will reach your goals. Women see more than only a dick when they look at men - they see the entire man. It’s the men who overestimate the importance of dick size, not the women.

Any questions left?

Just do it!

Hi Small blue, was going to write something earlier today but the words just became a mess. So I can only, humbly, co-sign what Richard65 said, so much truth there.
Go for it man, please do yourself that favour life is short.

Nice posts here guys. :up:

Go get her now. You could die in the next two years. Not worth the risk. I’m being deadly serious, that kind of thing really happens, even in Africa.

Think of her as a starving girl in Africa. Except she’s not starving for food. She’s starving for authentic affection, honesty, and love. Think of your penis as a magical conduit that transmits all those feelings to her in their purest form. Be giving.

She’s already said she’s been with a string of big-dicked guys and she wants you right now anyway over all that. Obviously she’s more interested in your love and character than your body.

I get that there’s some primal fear that by acting on the love you’ll somehow ruin it and devastatingly crush your self esteem or somehow hurt her. And yeah that could happen, but you pretty much said your self esteem is already crushed, and she’s already hurting from love-starvation anyway. And just to be realistic about this, in 2 years, a drop dead gorgeous girl is probably going to be with another guy when you get back. Maybe she’d wait, but that’s a long time to wait, chances are despite her best intentions somebody else will come along. So if you leave without trying, the love gets ruined anyway. You’ve got nothing to lose.

I’ve been in love a few times, and I’d kill to fall in love again. Maybe not kill. But my point is you don’t control when it happens or who it happens with. It just happens, and you’ve got to act on it while it’s ripe. If you wait too long, it can fade away.


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Smallblue

Thanks for the compliments but I think we have a slight cultural difference here. Me being Swiss, it’s sometimes hard to decipher my statements. We allways remain polite, one never knows, maybe you want to open one day a bank account and hand me over all your wealth, the soul, the family sort and the intellectual rights of all inventions you made. That’s the real meaning of Swiss politeness - it’s become genetic even to non-bankers like me :-) And that’s how we got rich as a nation.

What I said in non-swiss terms: stop thinking too much and get her in bed. You are ready for her, she’s ready for you, so why wait? You are two consenting adults, after all. And if it’s your insecurity, which she knows of already, give her the occasion and let her make you feel the great man you are - in the very physical meaning!

You collected about a dozen posts telling you that. So how much more do you need to be convinced to act insteat of thinking this love to doom?

Was that clear enough?


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Originally Posted by Small blue
I’m 5.5NBPEL and 4.625 MEG but only 4.0 at the tip.

I think this already has been said, but you are not small, that’s a lot of member at the same size of you that have normal sex and want to increase the size. Don’t avoid sex, you might regret.

Have to admit that when I first was going to respond to you SM I was almost a bit pissed off but it was only because your self doubts actually reflected upon myself as well.
First times I had sex I was about the exact same size you are now and I got plenty around with it, most women seemed to enjoy it a very few did not but I learned from it all and would not want to be without those experiences, in the end they have made me stronger mentally. And the good memories man, the good memories is all you have left when you grow old and grey.

When you have someone that actually loves you it will make it a whole lot easier as you can communicate with her in bed, make her tell you how she likes it. You have already been more open towards her than most men in this world would even dare to so you got nothing to lose but all to gain from this. When somebody loves you they tend to see the whole picture, all your good qualities and not just a dick that can please them, this I know. And again life is short, don’t let it go to waste you never know what’s lurking around the corner so no regrets and good luck man. :)

Originally Posted by Richard65
Smallblue

Thanks for the compliments but I think we have a slight cultural difference here. Me being Swiss, it’s sometimes hard to decipher my statements. We allways remain polite, one never knows, maybe you want to open one day a bank account and hand me over all your wealth, the soul, the family sort and the intellectual rights of all inventions you made. That’s the real meaning of Swiss politeness - it’s become genetic even to non-bankers like me :-) And that’s how we got rich as a nation.

What I said in non-swiss terms: stop thinking too much and get her in bed. You are ready for her, she’s ready for you, so why wait? You are two consenting adults, after all. And if it’s your insecurity, which she knows of already, give her the occasion and let her make you feel the great man you are - in the very physical meaning!

You collected about a dozen posts telling you that. So how much more do you need to be convinced to act insteat of thinking this love to doom?

Was that clear enough?

You are from swiss?

It’s true the what till lindermann says about “You can’t get laid in Germany?”

I know it’s not the same country, but close right?

Lol, Phyriel

I ignore who Mr. Lindermann is (sounds pretty German to my ears), but he may be right from his experience.

I got laid quite some times in Germany. So I can’t tell it doesn’t work. But the archetypal blond, blue-eyed German “Mädchen” is still on my to-do list. Even my Madame allows me a blond, as I never had a real blond until now.

But it’s not very tempting to me, I’m more into the mediterranean and sub-saharian type. But on the other side, if she is blond, curvy enough and has a sex-starved look in her eyes… who knows, who knows?


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She loves you for you bro and that is that! The girl that I am with right now(and have been for 3.5 years) when we started out I didnt want to have sex with her b/c I was embarrassed of my size. I knew that her ex had been a genital monster compared to me. The guy was like 7.5 or 8, it was big either way. I was very insecure about it but she kept assuring me she wanted to be with me for me and that’s all that matters. After having sex a couple of times I noticed she couldn’t go very long without wanting to rip my clothes off and straddle me where we were. One night she came over and we were having sex, not like porn fucking but sex/love and I could feel her body get hot as hell and her muscled tighten up. It feel like her pussy grabbed my weiner and said you’re staying right here mother fucker!!!!! haha. anyway she had a orgasm. No noise, all tense body trimmers followed by a physical sigh of relief. Wow I made this girl wet my bed and have a orgasm with just my little pecker? More so with women, a orgasm is more emotional then physical! A woman(especially one in love) would rather have the touch of her man on her flesh over the throb of a giant dick. Think of hookers, they fuck all shapes and sizes. Do you think they have a orgasm or cum every time they fuck a guy with a huge dick….99% NOOOO…for the 1% they take their job to serious hahaha.

I have asked her numerous times how big her ex was, and if she could compare us, but I realized I was fueling my own fire. Yes I was jealous of his bigger cock, but honestly if I had to chose between having a big cock and using it like a newb over having a smaller cock and using it like a bed wetting throbbing pussy destroyer you tell me which one sounds better? Now having both is just a perfect A+, and that is why we are all here! My girl told me once and said it in the most blunt way possible(she inst ta blunt person at all), “Yeah his dick is bigger than yours, who gives a fuck..look at the sheets..he never made me do that!”

After that I never brought it up ever again! I know when she cums or orgasms, right afterwards she goes straight to sleep like a child on December 24th waiting for the next day.

Think positive
Be positive
Do positive
Peace.

Your my size, dude. I lost loads of weight last year and kept it off by cutting out milk and white bread. Pretty much have turned into a complete slut. I went without sex for three years cause of fear. Now I seem to be able to get a girl into the sack i a couple of hours and I’m making up for lost time.

What you don’t realize is that most women will be able to ride you and you will hit the bottom of the virgina. Have you fingered her yet? Can you feel the bottom with your finger? If so you should use your penis instead, cause it’s more fun.

Small blue,

I, like you, am a true romantic. I’ve not been with many girls, but I know that I am truly lucky to be with the one I’m with now, and I’ve been asked on numerous occasions how I got her and I still can’t think of a good answer other than being a nice guy. So naturally, I want to be the best man I can be for my girl, physically, emotionally, supportively.. However you want to say it, but basically in every way. At least some of it is probably due to my insecurity of her leaving me for someone who I see as a better match for her, but nonetheless I am a loyal, dedicated, faithful guy who can’t ever do enough for their other half.

Due to us both doing shift work, we hardly ever get to spend enough time together to even consider sex at the moment and we haven’t yet, but like you I’m trying to improve myself as much as I can before we do anything, but I’m not inclined to delay for two simple reasons; 1) She’s been with me this long already and is still waiting, so sex is obviously not a critical part of the relationship, so she loves me for who I am, and 2) if the size of my penis is an issue, that’s shallow and I wouldn’t want to be with such a shallow person. I have broken up with people for being shallow before now, as much as I loved them, it’s huge turn off emotionally for me.

There is nothing I can say to you that will make you feel better about yourself, you are the one who has to find out for yourself that actually, you’re not small, you’re average, and as has been said on here many times - average is better than half the population! My advice to you would be to get your body in shape so you can at least feel comfortable with that, and don’t wait a second longer. I can tell from your story that she loves you beyond any physical imperfections and really wants to be with you. Be confident. You already have her, and she has you. I really doubt that penis size in your relationship is going to be a make-or-break situation, similar to my own relationship.

MM.

Originally Posted by Richard65
Lol, Phyriel

I ignore who Mr. Lindermann is (sounds pretty German to my ears), but he may be right from his experience.

I got laid quite some times in Germany. So I can’t tell it doesn’t work. But the archetypal blond, blue-eyed German “Mädchen” is still on my to-do list. Even my Madame allows me a blond, as I never had a real blond until now.

But it’s not very tempting to me, I’m more into the mediterranean and sub-saharian type. But on the other side, if she is blond, curvy enough and has a sex-starved look in her eyes.. Who knows, who knows?

He is on the vocals of Rammstein, and he made this critic on a song called “Pussy”.

I know people in my country are more “warmer” (if I can use this word) than in other places, at least it’s the what I listen from other guys.

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