My length might be intimidating to some girls, but my girth is disgustingly average. I want my girth to get to at least 5.5, ideally id like it to get to 5.75, but I’ll take this one step at a time.
I have 5.5” girth, which I think has been a perfect point of pleasure and pain, so to speak. I never realized until recently that I was so far above average - the distribution curve for girth is pretty steep, and 5.5” is about 90th percentile or maybe even above. Looking back, I can see that it has probably helped me satisfy my partners (along with always having focused a lot on foreplay and technique), but also explains why I have been able to wear my partners out and have even had problems with them ending up sore enough (even sometimes after having sex just once) that they need an extra day to recover.
I’ve found that at a bit under 7” length, I still seem to have hit cervixes frequently enough. I’d like to try getting to 7.25” length, but would be very concerned about he downside of it until I had a lot of experience with longer lengths. I really like to be able to “grind”, and even just to lay or rest up against a partner while fully inside her - or even have her on top of me.