The analogy with penis size and newbies setting loft goals such as 11x7 reminds me of people just starting to work out.
I have to laugh when people tell me they are working out and want to get bigger, “but I do not want to be as big as you”. It is not like just one day you wake up and say, Oh shit I got huge, now what do I do?
or the other newbie and lifter analogy is:
Well I gained a 1/2” in 3 months, so if I keep at this I will look like Mandingo in about 2 years.
Well I started working out I weighed 170 and less than a year I put on 20lbs. So if I keep at it in about 6 more years I will look like Ronnie Colman. It just doesn’t work that way.