Worrying problem. Weak Bladder..(Pee problems)
Hi everyone my doctors sometimes just doesn’t seem to have time for me to really answer me and I’m so worried about this problem which I have had for 22 years.
My problem: peeing
All my life I have been able to pee better SITTING, than standing.
I never wanted to talk about this with anyone but this year it had to stop ( I know I did wrong about this, but I have hopes that it not too late. )
That said, I can’t pee in public or with friends… I always have to do it the sneaky way.. find a place where I’m at peace and try doing it there.
I have gotten to think many times that this was mental, as a child I grew up to become a man really late and I always wished to be like the rest.
I have been going to the doctor for more than 6 months now, they take ages to do their test… After 4 different test the only thing the doctor tells me is that they have still have to do many more test, but what they know is that my bladder is weak.. that it doesn’t contract.. its floppy. Doc says that my stomach is the one doing the job that bladder should be doing, this is why I pee sitting better than standing.
So I’m witting here because I don’t know what else to do, maybe be lucky and find someone who has some more knowledge that can pass on to me, or maybe someone that has had this problem.
Anything I’ll appreciate it.
I believe that something is probably wrong inside me… but at this point of my life I believe I have developed a mental problem as well about this.
This really stresses me, makes me feel less of a man… and I’m really ashamed of being this way..
Thank you for listening.