Trouble getting it up WHY
I’m 20 years old, great shape (weights + cardio all the time), did PE for approximately 2.5 years and went from 5.25x4.5 to 6.25x5.5 but I’ve taken the last year off from PE completely because I had stopped gaining for the last 6 months no matter what I did, decon breaks, everything.
Since I was 12 I’ve always had spontaneous erections from smallest things, like hugging a girl or dancing. I still wake up with wood, when I masturbate I get very strong wood, which I used to do everyday. The first few times I’ve hooked up with girls I got rock hard. This is probably back when I was PEing.
But the last two times I’ve hooked up, with 2 different hot girls, I’ve had trouble getting getting it up. What usually happens is I’ll notice it’s somewhat hard when we first start foreplay, then goes soft and stays soft. So when it’s time for the pants to come off, it’s completely soft which is horrible obviously because it’s soft but also because I’m a major grower, not a shower. At this point I’m thinking “Oh crap, it’s soft” and NOTHING can get it hard, blow job can get it to about 50-60% but that’s it and goes soft immediately if she stops.
So what happened when I was with my latest girl was it was hard during foreplay, then soft and stayed soft when the pants came off, after a while of playing with her perfect ass and getting some head it actually did finally get up to about 90% hard, put on the condom as fast as I could, humped away for 10 seconds, then it got soft again and we had to stop. This was how I lost my virginity, what a nightmare hahahahhahaha.
A few things I can speculate might be causing this:
1.Chronic masturbation. I’ve whacked off once a day literally for about 5 years now. My sexual circuitry could be fucked up, too used to Vaseline + hand and staring at computer screen; it’s not used to actual thing, a hot naked woman in bed!
2. Being nervous. I’m pretty sexually inexperienced.
3. Stopping PE probably isn’t helping the situation.
4. Low testosterone? See below..
BUT now get a load of this. 1st time we hooked up, soft. 2nd time I used a sexual supplement that works by boosting testosterone naturally called Vitrix, it works PURELY by raising testosterone, no arginine or yohimbe or horny goat weed or anything like that. BAM! I was hard as a freakin rock, only guess what? She was on her period and we couldn’t bone! But I was hard the whole entire time, got some good head and stayed hard, etc. Then the 3rd time, no Vitrix to help me out and pretty much couldn’t get hard again, although not as bad as the first time. So the Vitrix works for me. Could this possibly mean I have low testosterone levels? A healthy, extremely active 20 year old? Don’t really think so seeing as how I’m always horny and have no problem getting it up when masterbating.
What should I do? I have completely cut out all porn and masturbation for the last 2 weeks already. Haven’t resumed PE yet because I want to take more time off so hopefully when I start again I’ll be able to gain. Can anyone offer any advice? Is it normal for someone who’s nervous and not sexually experienced to have trouble getting it up? I’m confused, don’t really know how to go about fixing this.
Oh and last thing I did notice about 1 year ago I developed a small problem with more frequent urination (mostly just at night when I’m trying to sleep), saw a doctor and he dismissed it as me drinking more water because it’s summer and not to worry. Any way these could be related?
Thanks in advance you guys. I love this forum.