Stamina difference depending on position

Why is it that my stamina during sex is much better when I am on my back and my wife is on top but when we are in missionary position, I barely last more than 30 seconds thrusting? I’ve tried different positions: doggy, side, missionary, girl on top and anything that requires me to thrust and work makes me climax a lot quicker than if I’m just laying there. Anything I can do to increase stamina in different positions?

I’m the opposite. If I’m the one in control I last much longer. I would recommend both edging and kegels. It’s helped me out quite a bit.

My experience is similar. I can last longer when they are on top.

I bet you are unconsciously kegeling when you thrust. I do that and it has taken a lot of practice to try and unlearn it. Edging and focusing on my breathing while thrusting have both helped me to regain control.

Second this.

Doggy is quickest for me. If my wife wants me to be quick she will stick her butt in the air for me. Love how it looks, the smell of her pussy and grabbing and spanking her butt. But to be honest I think it is the kneeling position that does it. I favour that position masturbating too.

Maybe it is psychological. Some people train themselves to masturbate lying face down and then they can’t orgasm on any other way.

I think you’re right. After posting this, had sex a couple of times and I noticed most of the time my core area is always clinched. My butt, abs, groin muscles are engaged. I started to focus more on releasing the muscles and breathing. No success yet with missionary yet but I noticed something. If I don’t thrust and just grind while on top, I can last a lot longer. It has everything to do with friction for me. The thrusting/sliding is what gets me.

I only have issues when woman is on top and not always.

I am good in all other positions.

Do a reverse kegel for relieve that pressure.

I definitely agree that both is best. Experimenting though is always a good thing and lots of fun at the same time. Good luck with it.

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For me, if I let the woman ride on top of me (I’m belly up, facing the ceiling), I’m over … won’t last more than 4 minutes. Got aggravated if she want to anal, will blow in less than 2 minutes.

Blowjobs and handjobs are deadly for me aswell.

Any other position I can last way longer because I don’t enjoy them, specially doggy.

So interesting! Do you attribute it all to you not enjoying the position then? Is it all psychological? For me, I think it’s a combination of both psychological and physical. Doggy style, for instance, is the worst for me because it stimulates my trigger points on the underside a lot harder and visually it is amazing.

I don’t feel nothing at doggy, to be honest, with me on top I feel none … and I believe it is all psychological.

If I recollect my porn history, riding (woman on the top) is all there is, only position that turn me on to the max (talking about more than 10 years of porn).

Handjobs and blowjobs I don’t enjoy that much, I blow faster because is really physical … hands and mouth can be very stimulating when the partner really wants to.

My wife stopped blowing me because I never cum. She is depressed about it and feels like a failure. It’s shitty too because head is my favorite thing for foreplay , I just damaged what she thought of herself by never cumming. When I’m in control I last maybe 5 minutes. She usually cums 2 or more times in that window. Good enough for me because when I do go longer she just gets sore and bleeds.