Sharing my frustration!

I have been a longtime enemy of kegels because they made me come a lot quicker and ruined my sex life awhile back. So also I’ve had erection problems in the recent past, so I figured I would give kegels another try. I didn’t do too many, but my gf showed up to my house to suprise me 3-4 hours later and I guess I was still fatigued because I came really quickly, just when I had gotten over that! Bah just my luck. I think I’m going to stop doing them again lol.

I feel your pain, 100%. It’s just what do you want, one minute of sex, or terrible limp sex? Me, I can’t choose, I HAVE to use a cock ring.

How many kegels did you do?

Yeah I think I’m getting a cockring, man. I barely did any! I did 2 sets of 50 (rapid .5 second ones) and then did 1 set of 13 (3 or 4 second holds) really nothing. Its either I was fatiged or any kegels at all fuck me over. I’m just going to stay clear, I think the cockring sounds like a great idea, it’l save me money on viagra haha.

Some days I’ll work completely fine without viagra so its not all bad, but other days I’ll get partial hard and then it will all but go away when it comes to sex, pretty sweet! Yeah I need to look into a cockring though, I don’t even care anymore.

Yes, I suggested the cock ring in another thread yu wrote concerning the same subject. Instead of kegalling try ballooning.

At your age why did the doctor put you on viagra, is due to high blood pressure?
And what about the venous leakage? If so, you need to take 1000mg-3000mg per day in divided dosages. Of vitemin “C”

Well the doctor didn’t necessarily put me on it… I’ll look into the ballooning thread again, it was a little confusing at first, I’ll just give it more time.

Its not venous leakage, because some days its fine. For example last weekend I had sex for almost an hour with no viagra and nothing else to help me. Then we were going to do it again (I hadn’t even come yet from the first time) and nothing. Then two days later the same thing, but then take a little viagra and it will always work so yeah.

With the cock ring, I just feel a little embarassed is all and my gf who is 17 might be freaked out by it at first because she’s probably never seen anything like it. Oh well with all the times I’ve gone soft, I’m sure she wont care ;) .

Sorry about putting this is the wrong forum, since it was originally meant to be a rant about me being frustrated I put it in NCE.

How old are you?

18.

Your girlfriend is only 17, did you get her parents consent to have sex with her? She’s a minor I do beleive,if the age of consent is still 18. Perhaps you should wait tell she is 18 before you have sex again with her. If you did not get her parents consent, at least that’s the way I think it works. They can put you in jail for statutory rape. Even if she gave her consent. Unless she is an emancipated minor. This means she divorced her parents in a sense and is not under their gaurdianship any longer.

I really think you should get a prescription from a doctor before you take viagra, hate to sound like a mean old man, but I am! Actually I’m not.

Kegels take months before you will notice anything and at first you may cum sooner. At 18 I also used to also shoot fast but could go again right away and than I would last for a while.

Well In the past I have noticed that I can feel a difference within 2 weeks when doing kegel workouts. I can clamp off my ejaculate much better.

Anyways the first few times I had sex I had to actually try to come, it was great. Then I started doing kegels, I kept with them for awhile and noticed that I was coming almost immediately everytime, it was terrible. Well when me and my gf first had sex, I had to do kegels again due to erection problems. I came really fast in the beginning as well during that time. I stopped doing kegels and started taking a little bit of viagra, and wham things started falling into place. When I was doing kegels, I lasted maybe a little over a minute for each time. I stopped and after about a week I started lasting longer, in no time I was back to lasting much longer usually between 25-50 minutes on the first time, and the second time around in a night I sometimes found myself lasting as long as I wanted. Two or three days later I did the kegel workout that I mentioned above, and I came in under a minute. The day after that I came in 4 or 5. Today I lasted maybe a little under 10. I havn’t done kegels since. I’ll stick to reverse kegels and just trying to relax myself as much as possible, been working for me so far. Thanks though Dino an Kingpole.

Are you serious?

In Britain the age of consent is 16 while here in Canada it is 14. Which country do you live in? Probably the US? The US is usually more conservative.