Sex link & pic diagram of clit/g-spot/epicenter

luvdadus, how similar in feeling is the epicenter and cds on your glans? How do you tell where you are, simply by angle and positioning and applying a reasonable guestimate? I would suspect the anterior would feel different with the cervix right behind it…

I know that the anterior spot I can reach in my girlfriend with just a finger.

She says it’s ok, but that it gets sore very quickly.

She much prefers her Gspot, and more so, her clit.

I’m not sure if I can/am hitting the posterior fornix because that is too deep for fingers, and I don’t know whats going on when I put my penis in there ;)

Both the anterior and the posterior fornix are part of the “ring” around the cervix and are reported to yield similar sensations. My wife is very passionate (yay!), but sadly, as a result, not really into differentiating between the various spots. When I ask “which feels better?” she usually indicates that it’s all wonderful and for me to please pick one and do it rather than teasing her by messing around with each one for a few seconds. She does say that they both feel very similar though.

The posterior fornix is rather deep and, in many cases, hard to reach for the non-enlightened (those who do not believe in PE). This area is much easier to stimulate through the “back-door” and is often done so during anal sex, it seems, which is probably accounts for the fact that girls who like anal sex REALLY like anal sex.

The anterior fornix is easier to reach in positions that channel the penis to the right spot without slamming into the cervix. The anterior fornix is the one reason I would really like to have one of those banana shaped penises at times. The anterior fornix can often be reached with the fingers.

That’s what I know.

Dr. Lin is a quack. He picks what scientific knowledge is useful to support the sale of his products and leaves other stuff behind. Whether or not he is an actual Chinese health care practitioner or simply using the Lin surname to tap into markets that think Chinese medicine will do neat stuff that western medicine will not (which is true in some cases, btw), I do not know. It seems like if it was a Chinese-run site, they would hire someone to clean up the wording of the site… who knows? However, I can tell you that the site does model many Chinese business practices that will site all sorts of spurious and incompletely reported research in order to sell their products.

The first Chinese physician to figure out the whole penile lengthening surgery in China subsequently went around telling everybody that Chinese men had small penises, that a large penis was absolutely necessary in order for one to get married, and that average penis length was 8 inches. Chinese people flocked to Wuhan, his city of practice, and he got rich. He claimed girth was not at all important, presumably because he did not offer any girth enhancement services.

The anterior fornix is easier to reach, I can feel the cevix on the underside of my head in missionary, however If I slid off abruptly it seems to give the wife a little “stitch”. The posterior fornix requires a little knowledge and experience but once there it seems easier to stay in that groove. i feel the cervix slide over the topside. I think the orgasms gotten are essentially the same.

Luv and all,

>The posterior fornix requires a little knowledge and experience<

Of what knowledge do you speak?

So if the orgams are the same and the posterior fornix is easier to stay in the groove of, then that should be the right way to go, right? (way to go… I made a funny)

When you say the orgasms are the same do you mean the same place or the same intensity? Like, if you switched from the posterior to the anterior after a while would you need to start the stimulation from scratch, so to speak?

Also, when women have orgasms do they have a…… I cant remember the term, refractory phase or something, like guys do? Like do they get right sensitive so you have to stop?

SS4

SS4, when I’m nestled in my wife’s cds, she cums as long as I can keep the stimulation up. I swear I could give her an hour long orgasm if I could keep it up that long, but she puts on too hot of a show :)

Working on it, though..

RB,

>SS4, when I’m nestled in my wife’s cds, <

What methods or positions do you do to get ‘into the groove’?

>she cums as long as I can keep the stimulation up. I swear I could give her an hour long orgasm if I could keep it up that long, but she puts on too hot of a show <

Wow, that is really cool! How close can you get to an hour so far? How long is it before she comes, not counting foreplay? How common is this in other women, I mean, is it just your wife’s thing or is it similar with most?

I hope you guys dont mind my newbie questions!

I have about 1000 more btw. ;)
SS4

>>Of what knowledge do you speak?>>

How to steer him past the cervix without painfully boinking it.
The ant cervix is closer and easier to get to but its easy to slide off of and this sudden release causes a “stictch” type sensation in my wife. Once you get into the cds (post fornix) it seems to be easier to stay there. My wife usually cums within seconds however doesn’t experience the contious and forever type orgasms that RB describes in his wife.

luv,

How far do you thrust back (does that make sense?) in order to stay in the right groove? From the diagrams, it looks like not much. Or is it more of a grinding thing?

>My wife usually cums within seconds however doesn’t experience the contious and forever type orgasms that RB describes in his wife.<

Within seconds!?! Wowsers, penny! When her orgasm finishes does the part you were aiming for get too sensitive to continue? ie, do you have to stop for a bit when she is done or can you switch to the other side of the cervix?

Cheers
SS4

SS4, Missionary position, her legs spread wide and knees drawn back, possibly on my shoulders, my body more forward (up towards her head) and thrusting my penis straight down vertically towards the mattress.

So far, the longest has been about 12 minutes, with a few breaks in between for me to catch my breath :) Privacy is an issue at our house, and we’re typically in a big frigging hurry. There have been times that she has started cumming within 4 strokes when I slid into her cds.

As far as other women, I don’t know if it’s universal or not. I know DLD’s Jen reacts the same as my wife, and has had hour long squirting orgasms on his rod, and since I know the potential is there for my wife as well, is the reason I am going all out on length. I’m just getting to where I can get into her cds every time we have sex, ultimately I want to be able to reach deep no matter the position :)

I screwed a girl in college pre-pe that looking back gave all the signs of cds multiple orgasms, but I can’t say for sure. She was a petite little thing, I would put her on top of my rod and pull her back and forth by the hips, slip sliding away. As long as I could move her around, she came hard, fast and non-stop :)

Thanks RB and luv, you two are obviously very skilled in this area.

I still have many questions, especially about:

>As far as other women, I don’t know if it’s universal or not.<

Maybe iamaru could join in, if anyone will know, it is him, the slut.

:)
SS4

I thought I’d “jump in” since this was posted before I was a member and it brought up an interesting experience with a previous girlfriend.

We were having sex with her on her side and me on my knees when I found the anterior fornix…or maybe it found me. Howsomever, she began to come and after that orgasm I changed the rhythm just a little slower, she caught her breath and then I did it again- just short 1~2” strokes but kinda fast…and she came again, just like that. Like RB said above- if you can keep it up she’ll just keep coming. My GF came about 6 times and was rapidly flagging and begging me to stop otherwise she would have just kept on going like the Energizer Bunny.

This happened again though so it’s not a fluke (with her anyway).

Very interesting thread. So there are two places on women that can cause almost instantaneous and long orgasms. About how long does a guy need to be so hit them?

Maxtro I’d estimate that from the side position maybe ~6” would do it…that would be nbp and obviously if she has a big round booty or you have a lot of ab fat then you’d need a longer unit. I didn’t have to go in all the way and she really didn’t want me to…from that position the angle seems to be very critical and it’s really easy to start taking batting practice with the cervix and most women don’t like that.

Thanks MrP-P, even though it’s an answer I don’t like. Oh well, .75 inches to go.