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Safe sex????

I guess my concern/curiousity may be a better word, would be how many of these partners various people discuss, did one practice safe sex.

People say they are practicing safe sex (even have a thread on condoms) because they are scared of AIDS; VD etc, but it seems there are a lot of people that still won’t take the time to use a condom while having sex with multiple partners. It is almost like it is “cool” to say you have safe sex, than admit that you aren’t. Maybe it is the flack you get when you say you got lost in the mood and forgot. Maybe you already felt bad about not having safe sex and don’t necessarily need someone rubbing it in. I don’t know, but I am curious in 2003, are men/women having safe sex.

(Actually, I wanted to do a poll but didn’t know how).

Anna,

Good question and valid points. Anyone who is having sex with multiple partners and isn’t using some form of protection, IMHO has a few screws loose. And even in the begininng of a new sexual relationship, unless you are absoultely sure of where your partner has been lately (last year or so) its a good idea. Testing for STD’s isn’t foolproof and often times an STD doesn’t show up for several months to years.

Most men, and guys you can just nail me for this if you want, don’t like using condoms because, they “decrease the sensation” during sex. Since I don’t wear one, I don’t know if this is true or not, I would wager a guess that sensation is somewhat decreased but probably not as much as guys make it out to be. Now I am pretty confident that the guys on Thunders place think with their brains, like the ones between the ears and use protection.

I haven’t checked the figures from the National Disease Center, but last I knew the numbers of people with AIDS was on the rise, and it isn’t homosexuals or druggies who are getting it. It is hetrosexuals who aren’t practicing safe sex. If anyone has those figures, please share with the rest of us.

It’s good to be back!


sunny A day without sunshine is like a day without laughter :sun:

Saw this thread after the “How many partners?” thread.

For me condoms decrease the sensation a lot, to where I can´t really have sex because I don´t feel the friction and lose my erection. Maybe it´s about finding a condom that fits right.

So I usally try to wear one at the beginning but it enver works so it comes off sooner or later. I don´t have casual sex though, just with regular or at least semi-regular partners whom I know well.

Unfortunatly it doesn´t have to be the girls who sleeps around who gives you anything, might as well be the girl who just had one boyfriend, who got it from him and don´t even know it.

I try to be a safe as I can, by getting to know the girls really well first, but of course there´re no guarantees.

Sooner or later you have to lose the condom in a relationship though, I guess you could test before you do that but that doesn´t appeal to my sense of romance. Might be smart, but would feel cheap.

Condoms SUCK.

Condoms are for strangers. Once it is agreed that two people are going to be exclusive, than it is time to find a way to fuck “raw”.

Children are probably the worst STD you can get.

I don’t expect a woman to care whether I like condoms or not, it’s not like they are losing out on sensation. But I’ve been told by chicks that they are not fond of condoms either for it dries them out during sex. But, in these troubled times, condoms are necessary. Too many disease-bags out there.

<Most men, and guys you can just nail me for this if you want, don’t like using condoms because, they “decrease the sensation” during sex. Since I don’t wear one, I don’t know if this is true or not, I would wager a guess that sensation is somewhat decreased but probably not as much as guys make it out to be.>

Yea, and giving birth is “somewhat” painfull but not as much as gals make it out to be. Ever notice how all of the sex “experts” saying that condoms don’t reduce sensation are women? Try wearing rubber booties next time you walk in the surf at the beach, or surgical gloves when you caress someone.

Condomos suck bad, catching the skinny (AIDS) sucks worse.


Running a Massive Co-Front.

>>Children are probably the worst STD you can get.>>

Aren’t you glad your mother didn’t see it the same way?


Check it out guys, no need to have a big dick if you ain't gonna use it!!

She would have been doing me a service by aborting me.

Prinkle…interesting thought.

I don’t know if it is mainly women saying it isn’t doesn’t take the sensitivity away or not. I do know that there are condoms out there that doesn’t take all the sensation away. I know this because I use to make my husband wear one when we were dating.

The unfortunate thing about condoms is they have pros and cons and the pros I think should outweigh the cons.

I had sex with a guy when I was 17 who I knew had multiple partners. I insisted we use a condom. He bitched, moaned and groaned all while I put the condom on him. Needless to say during the exercise routine, he removed the condom because it was not comfortale for him. I sympathize with him. But he put me at risk when he decided to remove the condom. Jerk off if you think you are close but cant feel anything. Something. There are solutions and in this wild and crazy world we find ourselves in, nothing is safe. I sweated ten long years wondering if he contaminated me with something.

And with partners…that can be tricky too. People cheat. Not all people cheat, but people cheap. I am an extremely faithful person, but I have not always been a saint. You never know who is actually faithful or not. I believe with all my heart that you will never truly and completely know a person. People are weak. They have weak moments. And they don’t always confess to these weak moments and put their partners at risk.

They do have female condoms out now. I have little knowledge of them but I do know they exist.

Sex is great. I like the intimacy and sensations of it, but who wants their last great fu*ck, to be their last?


Last edited by anna nimity : 01-18-2003 at .

Sorry, I am lecturing, when I shouldn’t be.

Prickle,
seems to me that you are a bit of a nihilist.

what are your problems?

I’m sure there are people who can relate and would like to help you out.

being unhappy is not ok.

nothing that related

Even the “largest” condom available I’ve tried didn’t feel good. Hell, my member turned purple & “flipped out” the inside membrane of mushroom tip.

Still, man, i don’t care if you REALLY KNOW your chick, she may “bitchify” on ya one day and blackmail ya with a pregnancy. Too risky NOT to use it….unless you know of a state that doesn’t screw men legally.

Every guy here with a girth above 5.5” understands the uncomfy “lamination” feeling of a condom anyhoo.

EnrichedFlow wrote:
<Every guy here with a girth above 5.5” understands the uncomfy “lamination” feeling of a condom anyhoo.>

Yep, what he said.

Their are a vast number of ultra thin and sheer condoms to choose from, hundreds in fact….if you have a girth of 4.5”s. At just over 6”s I get just as couple of choises, none of them ultra thin. I would gladly pay a bunch more $ if they would do some limited production runs of a chubby pleasureplus condom. I have talked to a number of guys that say these things are the greatest invention since oral sex.

Thats a thought, anyone know of a co. selling speciality chubby condoms?


Running a Massive Co-Front.

I guess the same falls true to oral sex. Maybe if a guy goes down on a woman and uses plastic wrap as a shield, then she/we will unerstand how insensitive such a thing could be and together you could think of a way for you both to enjoy the feeling and be protected at the same time.

I think in the meantime, I have to read up on condoms. There has to be a condom to satisfy men’s girth. But I mentioned before I liked Shiek oe Sheik or however it is spelled. My husband said it wasn’t as bad as the others. And his girth is pretty good as well.

Found this tidbit….

~Most Historians believe it was the Roman soldiers who first used a form of condom. Made from sheep intestines the primary intention was not to stop un-wanted pregnancies but to protect from disease.

~After the fall of Rome nothing is recorded until the mid 17th century when a former French Marquis was known for sodomizing live chickens using straps of bacon on his penis!

~US President and founder Benjami Franklin also reportedly experimented with contraception, but obviously had no luck in the matter as he produced an amazing 53 illegitamate children.

~The first modern adaption was in 1921 when a factory worker named Alfred Trojon accidently dunked his errect penis in to a hot vat of vulcanized rubber!? Leaving him with a blackened twig. His Empire is now one of the largest in the world selling condoms in over 40 countries!

~Today the condom is widely used with many brands on the market to cover every length and girth. It is accepted as the most effective contaceptive against pregnancy and the prevention of sexual transmitted diseases.

~These facts and many more can be found on the ‘Condon Country’ website. There you will also find a ‘Histogram’ derived from Richard Edwards ‘The definative Penis Size Survey’, probably the largest and most popular on the net. 5-6 inches is the usual length errect, with 3.8mm the smallest recorded.

~Whether you’ve got a bull whip or a shoe-lace, a six shooter or a pellet gun your sure to find this site informative. It covers all the facts about condoms and rules out all the myths surrounding use.

~Condom Country was one of the USA’s first on-line condom stores. It was established in 1994 and offers the finest selection of condoms, lubricants and sex aids from around the world. On the main page you can browse condoms by type, brand and size(from really tiny to unbelievebly HUGE!).

~The range covers everything with over 100 colours and designs, any flavour possibly imaginable, thin or thick, super ribbed, Large head-room and non-latex, giving you the optional choice of polyurethane for extra sensitivity and lamb skin for a natural feel!(but will it protect you from foot and mouth?).

~They also sell hundreds of different lubrication lotions, regular, flavoured, coloured, spermicidal etc, as well as sex aids and toys. All items are available for world-wide shipping and you can pay via credit card or using the PayPay system. P&P varies on the size of package.

~Condoms are a part of everyday life but, most of us don’t try something different, we should have fun with them and incorporate them in to the love making act. It’s amazing that more than half the male population wear the wrong size or variety condom. It’s not advice we often listen to.

~Go on be daring, look at this site today, either for information or a little variety.

Try Condom Country at www.condom.com

http://www.condoms-buy.com/large-condoms-home.htm

http://www.condoms-buy.com/beyond-s…ondoms-home.htm

http://www.bigboycondoms.co.uk/sass…s/X%20Large.htm

Anyone try dental dams???

Condom info found:
The Trojan Magnum XL sounds fantastic for really big guys, but there are others which are slightly bigger than normal.
There’s the ordinary Trojan Magnum.
There’s RFSU’s Okeido which is almost eight inches long.
There’s Condomi XXL which is two centimeters longer and two millimetres wider than standard.
Durex Comfort is eight inches long rather than seven and is bulbous shaped for fat cocks.
The polyurethane Durex Avanti is fairly a standard length but is also wider. And the beauty of it being made of polyurethane is that you can use oil-based lubes with it.

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