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Originally Posted by Turnau

Read the threads I’ve posted earlier..

I have and thanks for posting them. I was just wondering if it’s any different for someone who will not even last through foreplay.

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Recognize.

Something I’ve always wondered for those with premature ejaculation. Couldn’t you find a girl that loves giving head, then get that out of the way first all the time, have her suck you off, slide on that condom and last longer?

What makes you think that’ll help someone last longer?


Recognize.

I feel like I have the worst premature ejaculation ever. I hardly can last a couple of thrusts.. It’s really, really embarrassing and frustrating when you really love your girl and can’t please her. I’ve read every thread here.. Dick Control, etc.. I even bought something called Prejaculation.. It hasn’t really helped. I don’t know what else to do :(

Originally Posted by Bhauk
I have and thanks for posting them. I was just wondering if it’s any different for someone who will not even last through foreplay.

Well, you really don’t know until you actually get to having foreplay. As some have said previously, getting a raging hard-on from making out is normal, especially if you’re young. If you weren’t getting aroused by close contact, it would be an indicator that something is wrong or that you’ve gotten desensitized. Personally, I couldn’t figure out what all the fuss was about when I lost my virginity. I could barely feel anything for the first 15 minutes (along with a nice bruise from her getting on top a bit too forcefully) until I started feeling something near then end, and even then I had to concentrate on actually cumming. A thick condom will help (particularly some types of polyurethane condoms; I think that Skyn is on the thicker side).

Also, I tend to be quick on the trigger occasionally, so as some have suggested here, I try to get in a jerking session in the morning sometimes to make sure that I’m good to go in the evening with the woman.

Also, I just read something where a woman said that she blows her husband when he gets home from work every evening so that he’s taken care of and puts more energy into her later on. Damn, I wish I had a girl that did that.

Originally Posted by 19052010
I suffer from the other side of the scale. I find it hard to cum. It takes me ages and I usually have to go at it really hard to climax.

Considering the bad cases of Premature ejaculation I have had lately, I would gnaw your newborn child to death with my teeth to lose all ability to cum and just be able to have a good 20+ minutes of sex. You got no idea.


Dec '09 : NBPEL: 6'' x EG: 5.1'' x FL: 2" -----> Aug '10 : NBPEL: 6.3'' x EG: 5.6'' x FL: 2"

Yeah, don't worry. It did not take me 8 months to get these gains. I was more off than on when it came to PE :O

Goal: EL: 7.25" x EG: 6.2" x FL: 4"

I have experienced this issue as well. For me, the only way to get good at sex is to practice it. That takes an understanding girl who is willing to help you work through the problem over time, with the understanding that overcoming it will be good for both involved. Finding the right girl is hard enough, and developing that kind of love and trust is even more difficult and takes even more time. But it helps to have someone else actively involved and supporting you; plus, it’s fun. Just remember to take care of her needs too.

And I have also found that you can get “rusty” or “out of form” after going through a dry spell, so don’t let that ruin all your hard work.

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