Questions (It's Been Awhile)
I used to post on here about six months ago, but I became so depressed with my penis size that I had become reclusive. Sound weird, trust me it is. Anyhow, I’m back because I’ve finally regained my self worth, but I still would like to ask some questions and get some help from you guys.
For the record: I am finally going to a urologist within the next couple of weeks to get an official word on these questions, but I’d like to run them by you guys first … you guys are more practical. Also, I am in a committed relationship with a loving girlfriend.
Q: I have a problem with pre-mature ejaculation (sorta). If I do not masturbate before sex, I can’t last more than about 3-5 minutes. When I do masturbate I can last between 10-45 minutes. If I am wearing a condom I CANNOT have an orgasm. My member simply starts losing his erections, and eventually I am down to flaccid. I have tried the most sensitive / thinnest condoms and I still have the same problem. Does anyone have advice on how to last longer or how to deal with the anxiety I always have in bed?
Q2: When I have an erection, it is less stiff at the bass. It sort of feels like a really hard cylinder on a ball because it can rotate with a medium amount of force. Anyone have fixes for this?
Q3: My penis stopped growing after sophomore year in high school, and it has always caused me anxiety. When I thought about how much I masturbated, I came to the conclusion I possibly masturbated three times a day for nearly a year. Could that have caused the growth to stop? Could I possibly have a testosterone level problem? Anyone have experience with this?
Q4: When I have an erection I can pull from the bottom towards my chest and in the middle of the shaft my penis makes a POPPING noise and it becomes a tilted L-shape. Could this have stopped growth in my penis because I have had it every since I began puberty? Any suggestions on what this might be?
Q5: Alright, I need some honesty! My penis is FL 3.45”, EL (NBP) 5.95” / EG 4.5”, and my girlfriend says she is satisfied, but I have to give her clitoral stimulation as well to give her an orgasm. I am worried about my girth most, but I am also worried about length and how well I can please her. I always get compliments on four play, oral sex, and “teasing” her —- she is always very wet —- but I definitely don’t give her a FULL feeling, nor does it feel FILLED for me. Is my GF lying to me or could what I have be ENOUGH (although I would like more). Does anyone have a routine that might help me out?
Overall: There isn’t ANYTHING else in my life that worries me other than my penis length … that’s why it feels so foolish to me. I should be thankful for not having many issues in my life, but this one has continuously made me depressed, and it even affects my friendships and social life.
For whoever reads all of this please, give me some input … I am sure I missed some questions and will ask them within the month, but I need to start getting answers and even some help on ACCEPTING that I have a below average penis, and get this stress out of my life.
Thanks guys in advance, you have always been nice and understanding … Thanks.